September Blame Thread
23The votes are in, and despite the quietest of efforts, @oldcatlady is our new goat this month.
/giphy thanks goat
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The votes are in, and despite the quietest of efforts, @oldcatlady is our new goat this month.
/giphy thanks goat
Hey, hey, hey, @OldCatLady, congratulations! Where we going on our next trip? Someplace that it’s not raining?
/image goat cat
@narfcake Love it! CatGoat! or Gocat!
/giphy goatiest goat
@OldCatLady:
I could apologize for having campaigned for you to be goat: but in fact, it’s your own damned fault.
When you have finished sweeping the loose storm water out of everything, we could all use a vacation.
/giphy cat goat
@f00l Don’t worry, your time will come.
@narfcake
I am pondering which level of Dante’s Inferno I will be directed setup my recliner on, what the dread day arrives.
@f00l I hope I’m right up next to the flames- so my marshmallows will toast better. (Yes, there will be marshmallows in Hell… oh the irony).
On a slightly different note (you will have to click on the link) some really fine portraits of goats and sheep
https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/in-sight/wp/2016/08/01/these-may-be-the-most-magnificent-portraits-of-goats-and-sheep-youll-ever-see/?hpid=hp_no-name_photo-story-d%3Ahomepage%2Fstory&tid=a_inl
@Kidsandliz
Click here for photos
I have left the building. Sometime tomorrow the building, or pieces of it, may depart also. I was just in Publix, where the cashiers report that customers’ minds have also departed, and that perhaps this week was not a good time for a BOGO on wine.
@OldCatLady
I unblame you. Any extra room on your ship?
How would we get along with the crew?
@OldCatLady I blame you and stupid Florida for being a hurricane magnet that will make my holiday weekend rainy. Boo. (Stay safe.)
@sammydog01 I plan to stay safe, secure in the knowledge that if Things Go Wrong, I really have only myself to blame. Thanks.
@OldCatLady I love my local Publix, and it’s always a good time for BOGO wine!
@PocketBrain It was all gone, and I didn’t get any.
/giphy wine o’clock
@OldCatLady
My first ever experience of Breyers Ice Cream came from a Publix.
Natural Vanilla. Happy.
I can now unblame myself for buying one or more of every power pack that has been offered here for the last couple of years. Pretty much every electrical orifice here is charging something(s).
@OldCatLady no no no, unblames are for when good things happen
@thismyusername I’m glad to have them, even though I don’t want to need them.
/giphy electric plug
@OldCatLady that gify… that… that… that is just a fire waiting to happen…
@OldCatLady, this storm is getting serious. You take care of yourself. You hear me?
@Barney I hear ya. Local weatherguesser just said ''With the eye moving ashore about 100 miles to our west, the worst of the storm will be directly south and east…" That’s us. Oh, and it will be around 0600 tomorrow. I loathe, abhor, detest, and despise early mornings. I recently promised to insert hot boiled (unshelled) eggs into whoever tried to get me to do anything at that hour. I don’t have anyone but myself to blame now.
/giphy hurricane
I guess I should blame you for the rain bands from this storm that is overloading my septic system.
Stay safe! Hurricanes blow.
/giphy hurricane
@RiotDemon Yup, that’s me. Baaa!
@OldCatLady Sheep go baaa; goats go bump
Got my fingers crossed for you & others in FL to be safe
@RiotDemon It’s supposed to reach here by next week! Damn you weather controlling goat @OldCatLady !!
/giphy rain goats
In my last Fuko, meh very kindly sent me a Cobra CJIC 250 Amp Portable Jump-Start/Air Compressor with A/C and D/C Power Outlets. Translation: a rechargeable battery with a few flourishes. It’s currently charging, and I’m glad to have it. The manual says it could run a small fan for 4 hours, or a bunch of other things for longer.
@OldCatLady
I guess it’s your fault they sent that to you?
@f00l @OldCatLady Maybe that’s an unblame…?
@OldCatLady - I think this raincoat will double as a goat coat:
or this?
Stay safe!
@oldcatlady
This is appropriate since I am in the middle of catching stray kittens from my backyard.
@darkzrobe what are you doing to them once you catch them???
@thismyusername shelter.
@darkzrobe awww… sweet, you are a good human… do you have a cat vortex in your back yard?
@thismyusername porch with a hole under the house. Will be fixed when I catch all of them.
@darkzrobe was that photo of one of the strays? Did it let you pick it up easily?
I ask because one of my first cats was living under my great grandmother’s porch. I wanted him because he let me give him food. He was terrified when we tried to catch him though.
He came around, but it took a little bit. Unfortunately we couldn’t get his sibling. I heard the family relocated it when he was older instead of taking it in somewhere it could get adopted and fixed.
@RiotDemon It took me a few tries to get it that comfortable. But apparently I am cuddly.
I was hoping to catch some of the other ones by now so it would have some playmates. But I havnt been able to so I will be bringing it to a shelter today as I am not home enough to give it the care it needs.
stay safe your goatlyness.
/giphy craaaaaazy goat!
@ELUNO
Calling all lip-readers. Your service are requested.
@f00l That’s what male goats do when they’re aroused.
@medz
They talk like me? Wow! Never knew.
/giphy me talking
@f00l
@OldCatLady - Welcome to the club, fucker.
/giphy Welcome to the club, fucker.
@OldCatLady Good luck
/giphy water goat
Let the blaming resume. We got about an inch of rain, wind got all the way up to 31 mph, gusts to 52 mph. Didn’t even bring down the pine cones. Yawn. This goat stuff isn’t so bad after all.
/giphy windy
@OldCatLady sounds like a typical Florida summer storm.
Glad it wasn’t too bad.
@OldCatLady Happy to hear you’re alright!
@OldCatLady
/giphy The Goat Abides
It’s still blowing and the power is out. Why did you invite the hurricane?
@PocketBrain I did warn that my goat regency would not be what people expected. This is just the start.
@OldCatLady The power is back on. In your face, goat!
Unblame for the night: catshirtswoot has a cat shirt.
http://shirt.woot.com/offers/ground-control-to-major-tom
@narfcake My randoms from the Woot-off just arrived- both are cat shirts, one of which I already own. Both are too cutesy to wear in public. Did you have to make it cat month, @OldCatLady?
@sammydog01 Yes, yes I did. Me-eh-eh!
/giphy goat bleat
@sammydog01 Too cutesy? Which designs did you get?
@narfcake Procatstination and meeoween. I have meeoween already and will probably alternate them for the last week of October when cutesy is more acceptable.
@sammydog01 Ah. Meeooween does tip the scale on cuteness, especially when animated:
Procatstination is pretty typical catshirtswoot fare IMHO, though. And yes, I have both of these. =^.^=
@narfcake But the write-up was incredibly funny. Poor drunk kitty. I don’t know how to copy the image but here’s the link for the other one.
http://shirt.woot.com/offers/procatstination-9?ref=cnt_ctlg_dgn_0
@narfcake LMFTFY
@gio Thanks. It was working when I originally posted it. I suspect some goat had something to do with that …
@narfcake I have a witness to prove I was otherwhere.
@OldCatLady
Ooooh. Is he in the Protection Program?
@f00l I don’t know, he won’t tell me his real name.
@OldCatLady
I don’t think you need to know his name. Just … Ummm … Geo-Tag him for future accessibility.
Cool night, highway speed, A/C on … and the vent temperature is:
Yes, that’s a negative symbol in front. So I think that gets an unblame.
@narfcake Wish I knew how I did that.
@OldCatLady By conjuring up the winter goat?
/image winter goat
@somf69
/giphy goat season
My catshirt arrived.
With more in this week’s derby.
Unblame OCL.
Too much stress lately. I need a yoga retreat. With goats.
http://metro.co.uk/2016/09/06/theres-now-a-retreat-where-you-can-do-yoga-with-goats-6112730/#item-attachment_6112576
It’s 7:30 and dark already? What kind of goat sorcery is this? Just yesterday it was light until 9.
/giphy goat sorcery
@sammydog01 I held the autumn equinox early. I was bored. Me-eh-eh!
Another catshirt
Today from Cute of the Month
So have an unblame!
@OldCatLady
I blame you for the following things:
That I don’t know if anyone ever ended up retrieving @PrincessSuzuki’s package from the Post Office.
That @Galmaegi actually appreciated this subscription.
That I don’t know if @Hollboll started getting the WSJ subscription.
That @toposhaba2’s package still won’t be delivered for a while.
That while I am expecting a free device from a well known company, I so far only got a package of Mountain Dew SPiked Lemonade which I still have not drunk/drank/drinken yet.
That I still never opened up the Animaniacs box set which I got in February.
That there is no fully working ROM based off of Nougat available for my Nexus 5 yet.
That there is no fully working ROM based off of Nougat available for my Nexus 7 2013 yet.
That the upcoming Nexus devices (which are rumored to be rebranded as “Pixel”) will reportedly be launched in October.
That while I found something which @mfladd would probably really like, @hollboll can’t help me out.
That the AC was down in part of my house for a couple of days, thus confining me to the parts with AC.
To be continued…
@TickledLizard
Egad! You sound Tickled!
/giphy tickled
@TickledLizard I have a package at the PO? Well, drat and blast it. Which one!? I did receive a mystery package… and am wondering how it works. (Note the puzzled look on my face).
@TickledLizard
/giphy puzzled
@PrincessSuzuki
That depends,when did you get the package which confuses you?
@TickledLizard Aug 25. Verra small and flat. and silver.
@PrincessSuzuki
You mean this?
@TickledLizard Yes
@PrincessSuzuki
No clue.
I’m innocent.
@TickledLizard well, thank you.
/giphy tanks
@TickledLizard I can confirm, no WSJ subscription has made its way to my desk yet.
@hollboll
What about somebody else’s desk?
@TickledLizard not that I’ve seen.
@hollboll
Grumble
@OldCatLady
I blame you that neither I, @narfcake, or many others have worked very hard at blaming you
/giphy guilty guilty guilty,
@f00l Some of us are saving the blames for your term.
@narfcake
I will be sharing the pain will all Goats Emeritus. In fact I look forward to it.
Speaking of which, where is the master list? I need to know who to torment when within my future madness.
@f00l I’m blaming @OldCatLady for the
possiblecertain future regret. I’m also blaming her that I don’t feel like searching for the unofficial official list.June 2014 - @davegrey
July 2014 - @Ryaneil
August 2014 - @marklog
September 2014 - @studerc
October 2014 - @Thumperchick
November 2014 - @cengland0
December 2014 - @lisaviolet
January 2015 - @joelmw
February 2015 - @Barney
March 2015 - @BillLehecka
April 2015 - @carl669
May 2015 - @narfcake
June 2015 - @Pavlov
July 2015 - @Starblind
August 2015 - @mfladd
September 2015 - @sohmageek
October 2015 - @jaremelz
November 2015 - @christinewas
December 2015 - @TaRDy
January 2016 - @thismyusername
February 2016 - @Lotsofgoats
March 2016 - @stardate820926
April 2016 - @KDemo
May 2016 - @medz
June 2016 - @dashcloud
July 2016 - @brhfl
August 2016 - @sammydog01
September 2016 - @OldCatLady
@narfcake You can’t give @Pavlov a full month’s credit; he didn’t fulfill his term. Instead he stood under a falling building, then he went to a place where nurses wouldn’t let him out, and they gave him drugs.
@OldCatLady
@Pavlov never finished a his month? And then he had a Close Personal Encounter with The Force? In The UK?
That Bastard. He needs to be made Goat for October November December by acclaim. Imagine staging a stunt like that just to get out of being goat?
@OldCatLady He was still
blamedunblamed a lot that month!@f00l Being injured is not a joking matter.
@narfcake
I know. My filters can be faulty
@narfcake I bleat the fifth.
@narfcake
My little list of lovely sharers of future pain. Thx!
@f00l I’d happily have been elected permanent goat if it meant I’d not have the recurring pain in my shoulder . . . I now know when it’s going to rain - problem is, as much and as often as it hurts, I’ve realized I can tell it is always going to rain somewhere.
@Pavlov
I hope the pain isn’t too bad or too frequent. And I hope all buildings in your vicinity have learned their lesson: that you are tougher than they are. Let them fear you.
I have various “informative” bones in my ankles, and one little toe that also gives me weather forecasts. These bones were quite talkative for a few years. Now they just murmur.
/giphy leap tall buildings with a single goat
I blame you for the fire ants in my lawn. I blame you for me not realizing that they were there. I blame you for the one that chewed on my little toe.
/giphy fire ants
@RiotDemon That’s my fault, and I accept the blame. In 24 hours you will be cursing me even louder. I recently had a fire ant multi-bite that blistered and lasted a solid week. Amdro and I are good friends; may I introduce you to them?
/giphy fire ant
@OldCatLady I end up having to poke the blisters, otherwise they are way too painful. Then I have a little wound that usually lasts a month. I’ll continue to blame you for the rest of September.
@OldCatLady
@RiotDemon
Fire ants and killer bees. Gotta love the hot parts of the US.
@RiotDemon
@lisaviolet hah. I vaguely remember watching MST3K of this movie.
@RiotDemon My mom let me watch it on tv when I was a kid, maybe five or six years old, over fifty years ago. I think we lived in Wichita Falls, TX at the time, where the ants are big, and ants have given me the willies ever since. We don’t have any big ants around our house (knock on wood), but I go a little crazy when I see the little ones in the house. Just a little crazy. Each time I look at the trail I get a little crazier…until the base of the entire house has been sprayed and there are no more…
@lisaviolet I saw that on the Saturday afternoon creature feature. I hate ants.
It’s another day!
To unblame @OldCatLady
Because catshirtswoot!
http://shirt.woot.com/offers/i-haz-the-dumb
@narfcake Unblame gratefully accepted.
@OldCatLady Your response is terse
And it’s not in a haiku
Now I must blame you
@narfcake
Blame the current goat
Do not trouble the past goats.
Leave that task to me.
/giphy haiku goat
@narfcake I don’t do fucking haiku, but I can cheat.
Don’t cheat, write
deep, goat,
Must blame.
apologies to Issa
@OldCatLady Yeesh. The least you could’ve done was write one in @carl669 style.
Fuck haikus to fuck
Fuckity fuckity fuck
Fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck.
See how easy that was?
@narfcake You want another turn on the rotisserie, is that it?
@OldCatLady Nah, I think I’m good.
There are better folks to goat
@f00l for October?
@narfcake
october goat cursed
pain, pain, daily pain is all
fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck
It is Caturday!
And guess what catshirtswoot has?
A cat shirt! Unblame!
http://shirt.woot.com/offers/highly-efficient
@narfcake I’m going to blame the goat for you always pointing out the obvious- that catshirtwoot has a cat shirt.
@dashcloud Over 90% of the shirts at catshirtswoot are NOT catshirts.
@narfcake
How about the % of catshirts in your closet?
@f00l 12%? I’m guessing about 1 in 8 shirts are catshirts.
It’s actually lower if I factor in the duplicates. Just Fresh Cake, Nocturnowl, and the Unstealthy Ninja series add up to over 50.
I unblame you because I managed to remember to go to Dollar Tree before all the good Halloween stuff is gone.
I also unblame you because they had skeleton salad tongs similar to the ones I had been looking at online that were normally $15.
I do however blame you because I bought a glittery cutout of a skull and crossbones… And now there is glitter fucking everywhere.
@RiotDemon
/image glitter goat
@RiotDemon I have not hit Dollar Tree this month. Every time I go there, I come out with $23. worth of stuff I didn’t need at all. If I do go there, I will have only myself to blame, until next month when I can blame @f00l. I think your glitter goat is a glitter lamb, though.
@OldCatLady
Curse you for cursing me for Ticktober!
/giphy curses
@OldCatLady isn’t that the fun of the Dollar Tree? Buying crap you don’t really need, haha. Last time I only spent around $10 for Halloween stuff, and around $12 on other random shit. Who knew I needed color changing bracelets??
I gotta go run errands. I don’t want to. I wanna sit around and watch video.
Then after I go run some errands I should have started hours ago, o gotta come home and do other stuff that isn’t watching videos.
I mean, fuck! @OldCatLady, sorry, love ya, but might have to hold my personal To-Do List against ya today.
/giphy grump
@f00l
http://shirt.woot.com/offers/procrastinate-today
@f00l Blame accepted. I’m trying to find a live stream of the wheelchair tennis Paralympics, and can’t do that either. Pile it on.
@OldCatLady
How is NBC handling the Para-Olympics?
@f00l 'The only sports NBC Sports Network will show in the United States are wheelchair rugby and men’s sitting volleyball. ’ The TeamUsa streaming site only covers US competitors. Which sucks. A friend of a friend, Marjolein Buis, is competing for the Netherlands in Women’s Wheelchair Tennis, and I’m still searching for a way to watch the singles and doubles. She won today, 7-6 6-1.
I blame you @OldCatLady because this isn’t a three-day-weekend.
@ELUNO Guilty as charged. Me-eh-eh!
/giphy bleat goat
@narfcake
Please answer Very Important T-Shirt Question posed in this thread:
https://meh.com/forum/topics/kids-say-the-darndest-things
If you don’t, @OldCatLady is gonna have to pay for your failure.
@f00l Meh. @OldCatLady has been unblamed a lot already; she could take a few hits.
@OldCatLady I just learned I missed this Kickstarter:
and I’m a little bit annoyed as it would be perfect for my office.
I blame you for the fact that my Stack Overflow and C: \DOS\RUN t-shirts are small.
And I’m sad that they’re small, because I really like(d) them.
@TickledLizard Can you shrink?
/giphy shrink
@oldcatlady
It just occurred to me that this was 66.6% of my T-shirt collection.
Congratulations, you made the list.
In future I will be slower to blame the goats. This month feels like
@OldCatLady
Unblame OCL!
It’s a @jasneko catshirt!
Triple catshirtswoot!
http://shirt.woot.com/offers/computer-work
I unblame you for randomly renting three movies from Redbox back to back to back, and actually enjoying all of them.
@RiotDemon I belatedly accept this unblame, with bleats.
Evening @OldCatLady unblame: I found one of my other copies of Coffee Stain Cats tonight, which means I actually have six copies, not just five. Hooray!
FWIW, Coffee Stain Cats was @fishbiscuit’s very first shirt to print. I would say she’s the absolute role model when it comes to the shirt.woot derby. She started with no previous experience in shirt designing, but was willing to learn, to accept criticism (especially since her first entry was rejected), practicing week after week with the different derby themes, honing her skills for the audience, and all along the way, sharing a positive attitude with fellow artists and Wooters.
On that topic, one of these days, I should inventory how many different coffeeshirtswoot I have too. After I inventory my catshirtswoot collection, I guess.
Now what if catsandcoffeeshirtswoot becomes a thing? …
@narfcake
You and your rich hip S Cal Goodwill and Salvation Army stores.
/giphy envy
@f00l
@narfcake
Ohhh that giphy reminds me. Was once at some concert. Which one? GNR? Forget. Excellent seats, like 4th row, got there v early.
Then along come these 2 ladies with seats next to us. Both v tall and fit and lean and wearing Serious Hair and Serious Makeup and funky jewelry and low cut tank tops and painted-on jeans and stilettos. And both way trim, with enormous humongous gargantuan bra-less tits that pointed upwards in a way that appeared to disprove Newton and his apple-tree experience. Perhaps these were “relativity-tits”. Dunno.
So, long time till concert start, my friends and I sitting discussing movies and music and normal stuff. But these two ladies next to us - with the “next stop, Playboy mag” look - clinbed onto their chairs in their stilettos. They barely spoke, even to each other. What they actually did, was to squirm around, pointing their tits at the arena roof this way, then that way, aiming those tits in every different direction and wiggling a bit in a kinda dainty way, since it all looked a bit precarious on those 5 inch heels.
Everyone was kinda glancing and trying not to stare, except for the people who were staring openly and giving scores. And these ladies got all pouty (not upset-pouty, rather, pay-attention-pouty) and added in a lot of hair tossing to augment the tits, but no one was fooled. For once, the hair was a secondary item. It was the ballistic tits as the Main Act.
So after this all went on for about 25 minutes and my friend and I were speculating whether the girls knew how to read, which was rude of us, because of course they could have been geniuses and Harvard-bound. But time passed, with increased pouts, and more hair, and some small shimmies, and the tits were singing “Higher and Higher” to their own little beat.
My friend went to get drinks, and we offered to get something for them, and they declined quite sweetly but neither the eyes or the tits were focused close at hand. Both were pointed, as were the hair and the heels - pointed, shall we say, towards what I shall suppose was a private place sublime.
And so finally someone with a badge came to our row and politely helped the ladies down from their chairs and led them away in the direction of backstage. As as they walked away, toward whomever had received the message those tits had sent, the ladies’ own “backstages” in those tight jeans sent a message of their own. And those tits just pointed Higher And Higher.
@f00l What do thrift stores have to do with finding a copy of a shirt that I owned already but forgot about? It was packed away in a blue travel bag, but the last few times (years) I went anywhere, I used the purple one instead.
Good concert story, though!
@narfcake
I thought you had arrived at psychic oneness with your rich SoCal thrift stores and just knew when a re-purposed catshirt or wootshirt was calling you.
I also have never-completely-unpacked suitcases from long ago. After enuf time, you stop feeling bad about being lazy.
@f00l That would have saved me lots and lots of no-finds trips.
On the topic of thrift stores though, feel free to blame @OldCatLady that someone else got to an $12 Zojirushi 4 liter hot water pot before I did. It was missing its safety cord, which I showed would cost $35 to replace, but he didn’t relent.
@f00l The concert story is by far the most entertaining thing I’ve read in weeks. I wonder whether they actually paid for their own seats or whether they were comped, and were part of the show. Or whether they expected to recoup their investment. I have a dirty mind, I know.
@f00l I still have not-yet-unpacked bag from ski trip in February.
Of 2015
@OldCatLady
I had a feeling they the ladies were comped with a backstage expectation. They didn’t feel like “I know the band already” people. More like "I’m used to this, I’m connected, someone usually gets me backstage if I wanna go backstage.
I wondered if they were pros. But a band big enuf to sellout a large arena wouldn’t need pros unless the band had a thing for professional girls. And I don’t think they were pros, except at being party girls looking for fun and money and the right long term assignment. Just my guess.
What was so interesting - first, that they barely spoke, even to each other. (They acted like a practiced pair, 1 blonde, 1 brunette, both with “color-assist”.)
And not-so-odd that they had those tits. In certain party circles and shopping districts, that wasn’t completely unusual. One friend called those “trophy-wife training-tits”.
It was the way they used the tits. They pointed with the same practiced accuracy I would hope for in a Navy Seal combat veteran. Those tits danced to their own beat. Totally impossible to ignore. They really spoke with those tits.
Message transmission devices. “Hey assholes, I’m sending ‘notice me, come and get me’ messages so come fucking get me backstage already”. Those messages from the “show tits” were for “the assistants and the help”.
I had the feeling that later in the evening those industrial strength show tits would also be very communicative in “party-chick” intimacy mode.
These ladies would have been quite strong, fit, and attractive without the Hair, Clothes, Shoes, Makeup, Accessories, and Tits. But we estimated the “evening’s look” at a minimum of 2K each per girl, not including jewelry, impossibly to evaluate that. And the standard party-girl stuff - hair and makeup - not cheap, and very worked.
And the plastic surgery and similar -minimum $5-$10k per girl as a guess, in way back when pricing.
And the attitude: "I look like a bimbo, dress like one, giggle like one, know how to have fun and meet people, but I’m also nice, and I also won’t take shit from someone."
Just a guess at a vibe. I could be way off.
I used to wonder what happened to them. For all the “show-girl” quality, they obviously worked really hard to become something. I always hoped they both found money and love.
@f00l “Higher and Higher”= Van Halen, “Dreams”. I once took a course on “The History of Rock” (now available on Coursera) which is my all-time favorite educational experience. The reading/listening list included interviews (see YouTube) with musicians, business managers, and reporters. One article which explains how those backstage passes were awarded is here: http://uproxx.com/music/david-lee-roth-party-van-halen/3/
@OldCatLady
Van Halen is good. Was also thinking a few other directions. Good lyrical phrase. Perhaps the plastic surgeon felt inspired by song.
Cats and coffee.
I’m soooooo
unblaming you, @OldCatLady.@narfcake And I’d take it, and the shirts too. One can dream.
@OldCatLady
@narfcake
Looks like the best ones have been pirated all over the place. Sigh. I own this one. Available today as a tote, so I guess woot gets some $ from me.
@OldCatLady
That linked version of Bonnie Raitt’s Under A Falling Sky wouldn’t play in browser, is worth a listen.
Here’s another one.
@narfcake Tomorrow I am making my quarterly pilgrimage to my local Red White and Blue thrift store. Comfortable shoes, T-shirt, jeans, and cash. I’m invoking the Resale Universal Power Source (new deity, just established) for a VitaMix, or a KitchenAid, or something equally desirable. Clothing by Gudrun Sjoden, Flax etc. also appreciated. If I come home empty-handed, I have only myself to blame.
@OldCatLady
/giphy blender
@f00l
http://shirt.woot.com/offers/blender-6
@OldCatLady The older KitchenAid blenders are made in the USA and are heavier than the newer imported ones. The rubber coupling is their weak spot, purposely done so the motor won’t be overloaded. Don’t be surprised if it’s there because it’s worn/stripped; they’re inexpensive to replace, though.
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0089M74EQ
@narfcake Noted, thanks. Do you have a list of brands you look for, or just trust your nose? I mean, I know what the cheap brands are, but I’m unfamiliar with the higher end ones.
@f00l Why does the image come from BBC but have a U.S. plug? Ignoring the ants.
/giphy "ants kitchen"
@OldCatLady
Re: plugs
BBC America I guess. Or a documentary or re-broadcast.
More generally:
Giphy is the Master. I am the Student. Giphy speaks to me. I wait upon Giphy.
I cannot illuminate The Ways Of Giphy, as this path has been trodden to its end by so few.
/giphy "ways of Giphy"
@OldCatLady When it comes to thrift store small appliances, price and condition matters more. I skip the off-brands, though, mainly because of quality and its lack of. Some even have fake safety listings (UL, SA, or ETL).
I accept the blame from everyone who didn’t post ‘Bucket of Carrots’ on the Woot FB page, and so didn’t win a BOC this afternoon. I didn’t win, either.
@OldCatLady No BOC? That’s an unblame!
@narfcake
@OldCatLady
Woot off? I remember those.
@OldCatLady I lost. Boo. I also blame you that apparently they’re not going to bother with BOCs this woot-off except for those five on Facebook.
@sammydog01
That must be another enticing reason I spend so much time at Woot.
@oldcatlady
I’m blaming you for the fact that I didn’t wear my Meh Shirt with Frosting and Sprinkles on the 2 year anniversary of my becoming a meh-mber 2 weeks ago.
What a missed opportunity
Blame Blame Blame!
WEDNESDAY, people!
/giphy Wednesday
@f00l
http://shirt.woot.com/offers/guess-what-day-it-is
@narfcake
Yeah, I’m already shopping that shirt-place today, due to sudden cat-coffee tote availability.
Right Meow.
I’m not bitter for the fact that despite the fact that ever day this week I have been loading Meh on my desktop, and the one day I don’t is when they have the fuku, so…
Congratulations @oldcatlady
You get the 1st unblame which I have ever given anyone.
@OldCatLady
I give you a huge UNBLAME because I was busy at the magic hour and did not come close to getting a fuko.
Otoh, you get 3 serious blame for my 3 fantasy football teams.
This particular unblame might make up for 3 blame and then some.
You see, I didn’t get one, so I get to majorly bitch whine moan, the usual. But I wasn’t there at the moment, so I didn’t try and fail.
F T W!
/giphy not your fault
@OldCatLady
I owe you A Sum Of One Zillion Unblames/Free Passes
For that Giphy of the kid w the flag. Apologies! Was I a hurry, saw cute kid, failed to even look at the flag because phone rang.
Then, horrified, but too late to fix. But @HollBoll fixed it, she feel relieved.
Apologies!!!
@f00l It was obvious that you had giphyed in haste, and I was sure one of the MEHer staff could fix it. Now I’m really paranoid about random images. Not that that will stop me from posting images, of course. Happy Thorsday!
@OldCatLady
I really do post a lot at red lights, or while walking down a hallway.
Not conducive to careful reflective editing, esp when the effing giphys won’t load.
You can blame me because Friday isn’t over yet. This is Freyr or Frey (twin of Freya), with Gullinbursti. The boar’s bristles glow in the dark. Focus on the boar.
@OldCatLady
Of House Frey in The Neck
Have I unblamed yet for today’s catshirt?
http://shirt.woot.com/offers/dont-leave-meowt
@narfcake
Second corniest cat pun I saw on Meh today.
So, @OldCatLady. Serious blame here.
Was rear-ended by a hit and run driver while stopped at a light. Driver backed up and took off. Was dark, driver moved fast, I got out to change info, saw large vehicle scramble for it, but couldn’t get plate. This one is like 200% not my fault.
Now my bumper is dented and crooked. All the lights still work, would pass inspection after collision. (Vehicle had great engine, book value is about $1500. As long as frame not damaged, not worried.). Have liability and uninsured motorist. Have access to another vehicle.
My shoulders and neck are sore. We’ll see.
…
Punchline
UNBLAME. Seriously.
This hit and run driver was wearing a uniform. And after he backed up and pulled around me at speed, I could see large letters on the side of his somewhat- bigger-than-a-cargo-van brown vehicle.
I wonder what those letters mean?
/image UPS truck
@f00l OMFG. Very glad the car (and you) weren’t totalled, glad it was identifiable. Fortunately the police will do the heavy work, and UPS has excellent insurance. Please get to a doctor within about three days. It’ll take a day or two for the full hurts to hit, and X-rays need to be taken. I accept the blame/unblame.
@f00l How do you feel today?
@OldCatLady
Goddam headache. Mostly low level, but sometimes, like, really un-fun.
Stiff sore tender neck and shoulders.
I have medical coverage, which is a novelty to me. And I have a medical rider on my uninsured motorist policy. And UPS gets to pay for everything in the long run.
I don’t think I’m in desperate straits or anything. But I suppose I should drag my sorry ass to the ER and get get it scanned.
That is, get my sorry ass scanned, to be precise. I can’t imagine why anyone would want to scan my rather mythological brain. Besides, I wouldn’t want to frighten the hospital employees. So they better stick to scanning my sorry ass.
Am currently flopped on the couch, indulging in enormous resentment and irritation about the idea of having to behave responsibly. I am really trying to maximize those “poor me, I don’t wanna” feelings. But I spoze I will Get Up And Do The Right Thing Shortly.
So annoying.
My attitude would not earn me praise as a “Trooper” today.
And then I thing about @studerc’s family and my heart hurts.
Perhaps today is not the perfect day for bitching after all.
PS. Thx.
@f00l It’s a really good idea to contact a lawyer, too. Forty years ago I was rear-ended, got whiplash, and today my T-3 and T-4 still get out of whack, which hurts.
@f00l That sucks, but thankfully you are ok! And @OldCatLady is right. You better call Saul for this one. Hit and runs are despicable.
@ELUNO
@OldCatLady
So, I got scanned at great expense to some insurance co. Nothing broken. Got warned about soft tissue injuries.
Then I got a shot of super-ibuprofen or something. The shot itself was so painful that I wanted a painkiller to kill the pain of the painkiller shot. Finally, 40 min later, everything suddenly stopped hurting. And I got a script for some kind of serious something.
The ER people didn’t seem to think my brain would get any worse that it is at present.
@f00l The insurance company officials thank you very much; they pass the cost onto UPS. If you got a copy of your hospital record, hang onto it and make half a dozen copies tomorrow. If you didn’t get one, please get one ASAP. Good news that nothing showed on X-ray, and you got a script.
@OldCatLady
I got one of these
/giphy kitty scan
@f00l Awww. We could all use one of those.
@f00l What did the police report say? You DID report it, right? Because the damage to your bumper is minor in cost compared to the damage to you, and somehow I doubt the driver told them all about it.
@f00l I missed what is up with Studerc’s family - what happened (and I hope you recover soon)?
@Kidsandliz Tough to talk about; see this thread:
Sterderc’s awful, horrible day
@compunaut Thanks… tragic
I came up with a fun thread idea which was going to either be called “What The Junk?!?”, or “Get That Junk Outta My Face”, but I can’t find the motivation to do it for more that 3 days.
Wow, and I didn’t even say what the thread would be about.
(Probably safer that way.)
Mind taking blame for the fact that I’m tempted to buy a mystery box of stuff (along with a $9.99 upgrade for more stuff) from That Daily Deal?
The only reason why I feel slightly hesitant is because I could use that money instead on buying certain t-shirts which @narfcake has pointed out several times and which I keep on telling myself that I should get especially since TeeTurtle was offering free shipping on all orders this weekend…
I changed my mind.
I’ll put that money towards the smaller of the new Pixel phones from Google which are coming next month.
So…
I’ll retract that blame. @oldcatlady
@TickledLizard I blame myself for not catching the free shipping, just to set things back on course.
/giphy navigation
@TickledLizard Yeah, I hope you didn’t succumb to the box. Mystery box subscription services, I’ve been mostly happy about; mystery box sales, only meh has met or exceeded its value every time.
@narfcake
This would have been a subscription minus the subscription.
(Meanwhile, despite the fact that nobody is trying to seize the Roomba I got in Fuku 6, someone is trying to get at the knives which I got in Fuku 11.)
You made it rain in Pittsburg yesterday and I had to watch this controversial call in slow motion over and over and over. (Thanks!)
@sammydog01 What just happened? Our local team, the Jags, had one of their painful, neverending games on TV, with replays. I feel your pain. My fault!
@OldCatLady It was a close call between being down and a fumble. I was admiring how wet uniforms look on man muscles. The replay on tv made it look much better. (I didn’t care who won.)
@sammydog01 Yeah, ever since HDTV and large screens became available, I look at sports channels. The only ones I mostly understand are baseball and soccer, but perhaps if I watch more, I’ll understand more.
@OldCatLady
http://shirt.woot.com/offers/sports-meh
@OldCatLady I like baseball and hockey too but football has much nicer eye candy. And cheerleaders so the guys don’t feel left out. Next year join a fantasy league and then you can own some of them.
@sammydog01
I can own a cheerleader?
/giphy Dallas Cowboy Cheerleaders
It’s oldcatlady’s fault that I gotta get rid of 3 kittens this week.
@cranky1950 You didn’t tag me but I showed up anyway. I’m sorry. How many does that leave you with?
@OldCatLady none
@cranky1950 You don’t sell at Jamestown do you?
@cranky1950 Well they are gone, none too soon, they destroyed the tv room yesterday.
@oldcatlady, I just ate the last cookie and now I have no more cookies. It’s all your fault.
@hollboll
Important question:
What kind were they?
Get your priorities straight.
@hollboll Check your settings.
http://shirt.woot.com/offers/changing-my-browser-settings-makes-me-hungry
@TickledLizard Pioneer Woman browned butter M&M cookies.
@narfcake Enabled cookies, but none appeared. What am I doing wrong?
@hollboll
Enable the “waft cookies this way” setting or install the extension.
/giphy cookies coming
@f00l
That Giphy is all wrong. But for some reason it must stay.
@hollboll
¯\_(ツ)_/¯
http://shirt.woot.com/offers/have-you-tried-unpugging-it
@hollboll Sigh. Yes, that’s my fault. Go to Wallyworld and buy some Pumpkin Spice Twinkies to replace them. They jumped in my cart when I wasn’t looking and I carefully handed them to the cashier to be reshelved, but it was close.
/giphy "pumpkin spice"
@OldCatLady
http://shirt.woot.com/offers/pumpkin-everything
@narfcake @hollboll No more cookies. Go pumpkin paleo!
@OldCatLady
/giphy gross
A mosquito that has the insolence to still be near me in Sept just bit me. A teeny one, not a monster one.
So Teeny Blame
But the weather is perfect.
So Mega Unblame
/giphy autumn leaves
@f00l I’d swat it but it’s too late. Be glad you’re not in FL, we are having a Zika panic.
@OldCatLady
I remember. West Coast, once. Skeeters with the size and attitudes of Gators.
/giphy skeeters
I haven’t decided whether today’s catshirtsteeturtle is a blame or an unblame …
http://www.teeturtle.com/products/cat-costumes
@narfcake unblame! Super cute.
@narfcake This may destroy my vow to get no more T shirts.
@OldCatLady Sorry!
I’m still holding off, but OTOH, I do have free shipping …
@narfcake
What do you do to get the free shipping?
@f00l I have a Cute Of The Month subscription.
The September shirt was an unblame, as was August.
On one hand, I could blame you that I forgot to check back in on Cat Costumes and the extra debut-day discount is gone. On the other hand, I should unblame you since the time has passed and I really don’t need yet another Halloween specific shirt when I already have several others from shirt.woot.
And yet on the third hand, I should simultaneously blame and unblame you for another GITD catshirt that I don’t “need” …
http://www.teeturtle.com/products/lucky-kitty-black
@narfcake Third hand? Yikes!
Radiation exposure or mad scientist/doctor experiment?
/giphy third hand
Why am I awake? Dammit, @oldcatlady!
@narfcake What? I just woke up, myself. Gee, it’s almost 9:30.
@OldCatLady
Cats get to nap just whenever.
/UNBLAME
@OldCatLady @f00l Let me guess …
http://shirt.woot.com/offers/employee-of-the-month
@narfcake Only since I retired and started staying up watching late night TV shows.
I can’t believe I’m doing this,but I unblameyou for the facct that I finally got ownCloud running on my Pi, as well as getting remote access set up (I believe).
I blame you for the fact though that I unblamed you.
I also blame you for the fact that I can’t figure out how to use my micro sd card for the ownCloud storage, though I’m working on it.
@TickledLizard I accept the unblame for getting your Pi untangled. Real soon now I’m going to get one set up here.
@TickledLizard
Hadn’t you better automate or algorithmicize this blame/unblame? Otherwise, you might never get free time to mess with the Pi.
@f00l
I’ll probably outsource that.
I went to parents night at school last night and had coffee. Apparently the goat put regular coffee in the server marked decaf because I was up half the night, and now I have to drive three and a half hours tonight to water skiing camp. Thanks a bunch @OldCatLady.
@sammydog01 Is it YOUR water-skiing camp or your progeny’s? Actually, either way might deserve an UNblame for @OldCatLady - cool time at camp or cool time for yourself without niblet
(When does it get too cold for this activity where y’all are? My brother lives in Michigan yet still has a long-standing tradition of water-skiing on his birthday, Oct 1, before putting all the eqmt away for the season)
/giphy October water skiing
first gif was gratuitous bouncing bewbs
@sammydog01 You’re welcome!!
@compunaut My progeny, I would probably break a hip. So I get to read my new Dexter books all day. Still, 7 hours of driving. This is the last camp of the season, but it’s supposed to be in the 80s. Only a couple of potential weeks left.
@sammydog01 You can’t break a hip falling in the water, unless you slip on the dock.
Hmmm… 7hr in the car for 1 day of ‘camp’? Need it to be the whole weekend next time
Maybe an audiobook would do the trick while driving
@compunaut
@sammydog01
Oh, stop. Or at least be careful. Audiobooks.
That remark make me feel all Beavis and Butthead.
“He said, ‘audiobooks’. Heh heh heh.”
I think my primal drives are all out of alignment with those mentioned in most sociology textbooks.
'Scuse me, time for an “audible break” now.
(Shhhh. Currently 200+ seriously interesting books on sale, $4.95 each, incl The Hobbit, and a buncha books by writers you’ve heard of, thru Sept 26, 11:59pm PT. I didn’t say that.)
It’s Friday, I just completed another project, and until I get answers or approvals from the architects and municipals, I’m as far along as I could on the other four projects that I’ve been working on.
So I have two hours to “look busy”.
I think that’s a blame, @OldCatLady.
@narfcake
T-shirt to illustrate, or no blame.
@narfcake Oh, go ahead. In future, take up serious origami for the mental discipline it provides. Two hours is enough for a lotus flower and a couple of cranes.
@f00l I considered drawing a @f00l for 2017 meh goat on a shirt … but decided that was ridiculously stupid.
@OldCatLady Serious origami, you say?
http://shirt.woot.com/offers/origami-lesson
http://shirt.woot.com/offers/tortilla-origami
MASSIVE UNBLAME
Yeah. Caps. Shouting. So, WTF you lookin’ at?
MASSIVE MASSIVE MASSIVE UNBLAME
Maru and Hana vid
Why, exactly, does my residence look deranged compared to theirs, btw?
@f00l I’m borrowing this. I did note a cup with protruding straw in the background, but otherwise it looks nothing like my house either.
@OldCatLady
Is there something about Japanese culture that makes them instinctually not acquire “too much stuff”? Are they immune to collecting, trying out, coveting, hoarding and extreme hoarding?
How do they avoid the “that’s interesting, it’s super-cheap, I wanna play with it” purchases?
What about the “OMG I’ve never seen Shun knives go that low before!” purchases?
What about the “those hiking sandals are pretty decent, and only $5, so one in every color” purchases?
What about the “I never knew that existed” purchases and the “I just fucking want one” purchases?
I am American. I know there are those Americans who don’t live by excess (Mennonites, adults, etc)…but still!
Incomprehension reigns.
/image Japanese garden
@f00l Housing in Japan tend to be much much smaller.
@f00l I bet that cat owner doesn’t even have one Bem wrist speaker and I own two.
@f00l I’m a believer in the old adage:
He who dies with the most toys wins.
@narfcake
@narfcake
I have lived in a closet, in the long ago graduate school past. (Well, a big closet.)
And I had too much stuff.
Also lived in some biggish places.
My residence never ever looked like Maru’s and Hana’s residence.
I think if I were to achieve that sort of clean simplicity in my residence, I might also achieve wisdom.
Neither is on today’s agenda. It’s never the right time, you know?
@Shrdlu
Re: pitcher
Just wow.
@narfcake
@OldCatLady
Ok, ok, too many audiobooks already. I’m obsessed. Ok ok ok.
But, thru the end of Sept 26, Pacific Time, audible has on sale for $4.95 this international best-seller from the Japanese cleaning expert Marie Kodo
The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up
by Marie Kondo
Narrated by Emily Woo Zeller
4 hrs and 50 mins
Unabridged Audiobook
4.35 (11971Ratings.)
This book is actually quite good, if you’re looking for this sort of information, and the writer is a delight.
The book might be even more effective for persons who are willing to practice any of the methods she advises.
https://mobile.audible.com/pd/Self-Development/The-Life-Changing-Magic-of-Tidying-Up-Audiobook/B00RC3M6OG
@Shrdlu I don’t have very many t-shirts (sorry @narfcake) but I have that one
@OldCatLady I blame you for not telling my phone that it was Mule Days in Buttfuck, NC. She led me down Main Street into twenty minutes of a redneck pride parade at 11 PM. I have never seen so many Confederate battle flags in my life, and I live in the capital of the Confederacy. Soooooo tired.
@sammydog01 Hahahahahaha! I’d never heard of Mule Days, and I used to live one state north. Well, it’s nice weather now, of course the -uh- flag wavers will be waving flags. My fault. -Wait, 11 PM? If you were out after dark in Cackalackee last night, you’re braver than I am.
@OldCatLady To tell you the truth I was pretty freaked out, being 100 miles away from a four day (and counting) race riot. But I had the appropriate complexion for the festivities so all was well.
@sammydog01
Many decades ago a very very elderly relative died.
The relative had outlived almost all of that generation and some of the next. The relative had lived a quiet life for decades. The funeral was on a miserable day (i think in January), almost light sleet if I remember. We expected almost no one but family to attend. V small occasion. The funeral was expected to be so small, that we could all travel in a few limos. No police motorcycles managing the intersections, if I remember, since just so few cars.
The cemetery is somewhat historically significant, in an old part of that city. The cemetery has so many trees it’s sorta foresty. It’s hard to see very well from the street into the central cemetery due to the trees.
So we got to the cemetery gates in the funeral home limos. And there were two guys standing there at attention, in work clothes and carrying shotguns.
They kinda looked like cemetery maintenance people, doing a “militia” routine for the day. I never found out who they were.
We - the family - esp my aunt and uncle, who had arranged the funeral according to the deceased’s wishes, went, "What’s going on? Why are two guys in work clothes standing at the cemetery entrance, at attention, with shotguns? "
And the Funeral Director, who rode in the front seat of the limo, turned around and said, “this is impromptu. I hope you’re not too upset, and will forgive us if we handled this with poor judgement. we found out during the church service that there might be trouble or some neighborhood reaction. We have put a call into the police, they will be here shortly, just as a precaution. We don’t expect that anything will happen.”
And we were, “what are you talking about? What trouble? Huh? About (Relative’s Name’s) funeral???”
And by then we were heading into the center area of the cemetery, and the Funeral Director pointed, and we saw.
A number (10? 15?) of not-young ladies - I would think all or most well over 60 years - we had never seen any of them before - they were all lined up. And all dressed exactly like someone prim and “social” dressed for formal daytime in the 1950’s. Which is to say, dressed far better than we were.
They were all in black, accented with jewel colors. Or in jewel colors accented with black. Formal and well-cut ladies’ suits. Black or dark pumps. stockings. They all wore daytime dress gloves. In black? Neutrals? I think some of these ladies wore white gloves. Some of the gloves were a bit lacy, but not out of keeping with a respectful and dignified atmosphere. (Are white gloves ok for ladies’ day use in winter? These things are beyond me.)
And they were wearing ladies’ hats. Color-and-fashion co-ordinated hats to go with the suits. Some hats with a bit of a feather - some with other nice bits of decoration, but somber, restrained, tasteful - several ladies had hats with veils!!! I remember the veils. Either black, or a dark jewel tone to match the hat.
(Need I mention that no one who attended as part of the funeral procession was wearing a ladies’ hat?!! The younger family members had never seen anyone wear a ladies’ hat, except in the movies, and pictures of royalty. One pre-schooler pointed at one of the hats and said “what’s that?”)
And these ladies had very nice camel-hair overcoats, and color-coordinated umbrellas, given the weather. The camel-hair overcoats were left unbuttoned - I guess the ladies were proud of their outfits and wanted to be seen.
So they looked exactly ready to attend the most prim and proper ever ladies’ church meeting you ever saw.
Except that they were all standing in a row, at honor. And they were all waving Confederate Battle Flags.
Big flags. Little flags. Cute ladies’ flags. And the one who seemed to be the “lady in charge” had a very large flag.
I think we forgot we were at a funeral for a bit. We just stared.
The Funeral Director said, that apparently (deceased relative)'s name in the local obit column got their attention. That name makes it clear that (your relative) is a descendant or close relation of (Semi-Famous Name), a notable person in the Confederacy.
These ladies are members of the (Semi-Famous Name) Chapter of the Daughters of the Confederacy". They mean no trouble, and will stand quietly and respectfully at a distance. They simply attend funerals in order to honor descendants and relatives of (Semi-Famous Name), as their chapter of the Daughters of the Confederacy is named after (Semi-Famous Name). We think some of them even flew here to attend.
I think our jaws dropped still further. Until that day, most of family had no idea that the Daughters of the Confederacy existed. It turns out, as we discovered, that all our family “ladies” are eligible to join.
So we had the funeral, a quiet, trad, rather short religious service. The ladies stood at a distance, as if lined up for a militaryinspection.
The funeral ended. We talked among ourselves. The ladies came over and spoke with us quietly, offering their respects and condolences. They did not proselytize for the Confederacy, or for their organization - in fact, they all said that they hoped they had not caused any problems. And they invited all our family ladies to consider learning more, or joining if any of us would be interested. They were all incredibly sweet and had vintage perfect manners, and vintage perfect posture.
The lady-in-charge did tell my aunt that they do not engage, at all, in current politics, even over the public display of the Battle Flag. (this was decades ago and I have no idea if she meant her chapter, or the organization as a whole. This lady told my aunt that they exist as an organization that promotes historical research and awareness. I have no idea what the scope of their interests might be.
Then they politely wished us well, excused themselves, and left.
Then we went to a relative’s house. The host offered food and drinks… I think most of us had one or two more drinks than we had expected to.
There was no trouble. But that cemetery is in a part of that city where someone carrying a Confederate Battle Flag would have been viewed as a deliberate provocation by the local residents, even if the person with the flag was dressed like a lady bound for church.
The street beside the cemetery once had a “leafy” traditional street name, I think.
A few years before my relative died, the street had been re-named - to honor a member of the Black Panthers.
(This is, I think, an image of a similar street sign from a different city)
@sammydog01
You might have unwittingly bought one of those special “Buttfuck Phones”.
My phone is not a full-on “Buttfuck Phone”. Sometimes it trips over into “Buttfuck Mode” tho. Reboots don’t help. It stays in “Buttfuck Mode” as long as it fucking wants to.
@f00l Dear me. They must not have been one of the Tidewarter (sic) chapters. When the son of one of their members married a woman whose great grandfather was held prisoner at Andersonville, it caused a certain amount of distress. When that couple’s daughter was born, the mother declined (politely) to have said child enrolled in the UDC. This caused the mother to be specifically uninvited to the child’s great-grandmother’s (1975) funeral, and especially the burial. They had all the flags waving that day, too. The GGM’s grandfather had been in the CSA troops, and he was quite active politically afterwards. As to ‘historical research and awareness’, I refer you to the ‘library’ page for a local institution: https://www.museumsouthernhistory.com/
@OldCatLady
i suppose your portion of the South must be a bit more deeply Southern than mine. There may have been Confederacy events and parades and funerals, from the 60’s and 70’s onward around here, but I’ve never heard of talk of one. Texas has its own state-specific mythology of frontier honor, revolution, and “never forget”, which, i suppose, competes for the same emotional space and energy in people who are into that.
i wonder why those ladies of “our” UDC chapter didn’t contact a member of the family. perhaps they did and whoever they contacted didn’t speak up. i do believe, from what i know now, that the deceased family member must have been aware of the UDC. i don’t really know more than that about how the ladies came to show up.
the ancestor who is honored by that chapter became a doctor as a young man, joined the Confederate Army, was given a high rank. i think he was severely injured several times, came close to death, withdrew from battle command, and spent the remainder of the war in command and control, and providing medical services, but i’m not certain. i just googled all this tonite. there are histories, and some universities have collections of papers. and one of my cousins has some material.
after the war, this Confederate office became a minister and a rancher, and once owned enormous - really enormous - acreage. i wonder what happened to all the financial resources.
from the UDC website:
“MEMBERSHIP ELIGIBILITY”
“Those eligible for membership are women at least 16 years of age who are lineal or collateral blood descendants of men and women who served honorably in the Army, Navy, or Civil Service of the Confederate States of America, or who gave Material Aid to the Cause. Women who were adopted are eligible only through the bloodline of the biological parent. Also eligible are those women who are lineal or collateral blood descendants of members or former members of UDC.”
“No Confederate ancestor who took the Oath of Allegiance before April 9, 1865, shall be eligible to be used for application for membership. If proof of further Confederate service is available, thereby nullifying the Oath of Allegiance, the ancestor shall be considered for approval.”
in other words, if you wish to join, your ancestor must have carried the Southern Code of Honor to the bitter end, and never, ever, made a decision based on practicality, or by the dictates and considerations of any other view of morality. no descendants of early birds surrendering types, or cause-questioning types, not by one day.
and curiously, the events of that particular day, April 9, 1865, have another ancestral connection: thru the Confederate General who shares a name with this fine vehicle:
when i was a very young child, i remember hearing that some relatives, no longer living at that time, had never quite given up on the idea that Arlington National Cemetery was really family land.
those generations would simply refuse to acknowledge or discuss “other issues” besides Honor and Glory in Southern history. “that’s done now”, they would say, and change the subject.
i’ve heard that family members from other branches of the family fought on the Union side. uncertain. “ancient history”, as we thought of it as children, barely concerned us. unless it involved Davy Crockett caps. or (as the story goes) escaping from the St Bartholomew’s Day Massacre in France by hiding in a wine cask. we did like the “good stuff”.
from wikipedia UDC’s page:
“The number of women’s clubs devoted to filiopietism and history was staggering,” says historian W. Fitzhugh Brundage. He notes two typical club women in Texas and Mississippi, who between them belonged to the United Daughters of the Confederacy, Daughters of the American Revolution, Association for the Preservation of Virginia Antiquities, Daughters of the Pilgrims, Daughters of the War of 1812, Daughters of Colonial Governors, and Daughters of the Founders and Patriots of America, Order of the First Families of Virginia, and the Colonial Dames of America, as well as a few other historically oriented societies."
@f00l Thanks for the story- I would have liked to see that.
But here’s what I don’t understand- the official flag of the CSA was the stars and bars. I guess that some people thought it was too much like the USA flag, but still it was official. The battle flag, so loved by white supremacists, belonged to the army of northern Virginia.
So what should southerners commemorate? The flag that flew over their capital that represented the independent Confederate States of America, or a battle flag from a war they fucking lost? I don’t get it.
Interestingly the article I read said that the UDC picked the battle flag for themselves in 1933, way after the war was over.
@OldCatLady The UDC is headquartered here- their building is next to our history museum.
@sammydog01
no wonder it’s thick in your neighborhood then.
are you near Richmond?
re flags of Lost Causes - if you want to sell a proper mythology down the generations- my thoughts:
You need Romance. You need Mystery. You need Valor and Chivalry. You need Heroes. You need Glory. You need Honor. You need Devotion. You need Sacrifice. You need a Myth Of Impossible Odds. You need Battle. You need Soldiers. You need The Brave And Valiant Left Behind At Home. You need the War Dead. You need the tale of a Lost and Betrayed Aristocracy, and the lesser folk and not-free folk who supported them. You need the True-Hearts of the Lost Cause standing bravely against the “vulgar, richer and more industrialized Foe”. You need Keepers Of The Flame.
You need a culture that died for Glory and Honor and Decency and Family and Christianity, not for trying to preserve a disgusting and criminal economy.
nothing against her, but having a Margaret Mitchell - and a Scarlett O’Hara and a Rhett Butler and an Ashley Wilkes - doesn’t hurt.
You need, esp, to deny real history and real economics and real moral horror.
symbolism in this case is for preserving romance and denying other perspectives, not for accuracy. i think, on those grounds, the Battle Flag wins.
@f00l Hijacking the saltire (St. Andrew’s Cross) from the Scots helped add more pathos. Florence King in ‘Southern Ladies and Gentlemen’ gleefully exploded the entire ‘southern’ myth, from an insider’s view. It’s still one of my favorite books. My ex-in-laws hated it like poison.
@OldCatLady
Re Scotland, yes. In the local self-conscious “Never Forget” universe, part of the mythology seems to be that those with a bit of Scot’s blood in their families are sometimes a bit more “True” than those of only English ancestry.
Gotta check out that book. Thx.
As a very young child I heard young adults and older adults argue over the “property values” issue sometimes. It could get intense.
My Mom tried to keep that out of her house. Her success varied, depending on who was visiting.
@OldCatLady @f00l Thanks for the book recommendation. I just downloaded it from the library. Yes, I live in Richmond. (By the way they gave out a citizenship award from the Daughters of the American Revolution at my kids’ school. Weird.) Crazy stuff here- some people are trying to erase all evidence of the CSA and others ride around with that ridiculous flag on their trucks. I keep my head down, being a yankee and all.
@sammydog01 I’ll be very interested in your opinion of the book.
@OldCatLady
looked King up. she looks feisty as hell. that’s a good start.
interesting that she locked horns with Molly Ivins over plagiarism. And Molly backed down. Wikipedia had a link to King’s text, and Ivin’s text. and it seems clear to my non-professional reading that Ivins was pretty much completely not-innocent.
now i love Molly, she gave ‘em hell for her entire life. and she was the one who made the nick’ “Shrub” stick, way before national office. i didn’t know Molly, had friends who did, she had a rep … of sometimes being a bit “casual” about things. since she was doing humor/editorial, with no pretense at “objectivity”, she could get away with it. mostly. but not, it seems, this time. and i’m glad King went after her.
having not yet read a word of King, other than looking at the stuff that proves her case against Ivins, I’m betting i will find her cadences familiar. The writing Molly cribbed from her was excellent - but felt like the thinking from an earlier generation or a more straight-jacketed place.
looking forward to it.
Ye Olde South seems so much more intense in the Deep South and the trad heart of the Confederate States. As much as I love To Kill A Mockingbird, and have respect for Go Set A Watchman, it’s hard to imagine them originating here. Texas is a little Southern and a lot - a whole lot - Western and Southwestern.
Plus there’s all that convoluted Texas history that you get the sanitized version of in Middle School. France, Spain, Mexico, Texas, Confederacy, US.
Plus the plantation economy was only viable in the SE and S Central parts of the state, and came in late, really late here - early and mid-1800’s mostly, as opposed to 1600’s. Plus the old money - and the old trad Southern aristocracy - was quickly eclipsed, financially and then socially, first, by the big ranching and cattle companies and families, and then by oil and Big Oil, and then by Big Biz, and now by Tech.
If you polled the social elite of N Texas, the social register people, i doubt even the power ladies would have a clue about which families were from early-settler people, or which from Old Virginia families who came in the 1600’s, or who came from families that mattered in the Civil War. but every one in the social register knows who has oil, tech, construction, and ranching $.
@OldCatLady It’s next on my list after I finish the Dexter book I’m reading. And anyone who thinks of southern women as “ladies” has never spent time in a private school carpool line.
@f00l I had not realized that Florence King died in January. What a ghastly month that was, for music, theater, and books. http://www.nationalreview.com/corner/429353/florence-king-obituary
@sammydog01 Her obits all mention ‘Confessions of a Failed Southern Lady’ as her best book. Now I have to go reread it.
@sammydog01
@OldCatLady
Social register ladies:
I learned not go to a certain La Madeleine for lunch.
Fun inexpensive Tex-French cafeteria.
Those ladies have scarves and elbows and jewelry and yoga bags and monster purses from Neiman-Nordstrom and other weapons.
To lunch safely without adopting protective coloration and behavior, eat w the plebes at the plebe spots.
Never mastered any sort of protective coloration. Or appropriate I-am-one-of-you conduct.
@OldCatLady
Re King book:
Am po’ed that there is no audio version. So I started making my Kindle Fire phone read it to me. (Driving)
After completing about 1% of the book, I convinced it’s one of the funniest books I’ve ever encountered. And, of course, there’s the ever-present,but not-yet mentioned shadow of things Southern ladies Do Not Discuss. I really hope it holds up, and think it will.
And the “logic” - of things like Black Market tax laws. Yeah. Makes sense. Does one have to live there?
Is it that funny to people outside the tradition? I wonder.
One diff, perhaps, between feelings here and those places in the older South - my relations, even, say, 3 generations back, would, in public, sniff at this book. “Well!” They might say. And they would not mention this book to outsiders (they would never understand) and children (not ready), and other locals (too embarrassing, and might lead to dangerous topics), I think.
But in private, and in their books clubs, they would read it and become hysterical with laughter. And pass it around among themselves, as as sort of secret decoder ring only for knowledge of the initiated.
In King’s telling of the movie visit with her Grandmother at the beginning of the book, I can hear tales on those generations, and see the posture of those straight-backed ladies as they greet each other. I can see or hear the echoes of various women’s club meetings that occurred in the house when I was a child.
Honor, and Decorum, and Manners before morality … often, then. Not always. And no longer. the post-war era and the media era have swept so much of that away; in my nuclear family we were never much party to any of it.
The world just changed. Even in the families when the sons followed into the family practice of law or family biz, or the daughters went from cheerleader to sorority to debutante to society marriage, and they kept the much of the manners, the dignity, the graciousness; but they didn’t keep the “let the past be” and “don’t discuss” and “your own kind” and “acknowledge by silence” and “don’t change” values at all. That world was past its time, should never have been, and these younger folk did, and do, want it gone gone gone.
And way past time.
@OldCatLady
Oh my! Ohmyohmyohmy!
Genealogy
My parents and uncles/aunts were not into this, and neither were their contemporaries. The previous generations: yes yes yes they were! Or ours were. I did not know that any other families were quite this nutty. I had no idea entire armies of ladies chased this quarry.
By the time I got to the genealogical research bit in King’s book - 12% in according to kindle - i was laughing so hard I couldn’t breathe or see properly. I can see and hear all those ladies and their fascinations. The various ladies bridge clubs and book clubs and clubs for good works … on summer days when we came inside to get lunch.
The elders of that side of my family would have all been primly superior to to all this archive searching as recounted in King’d book. (Of course, they would never have said anything. Never!). Professional researchers were hired, at some point, and bound books of genealogy published. We - if these books speak true - don’t have to be concerned with who William The Conqueror’s oarsmen were, since we have, according to the genealogists, Billy himself. I think that’s in one of these books… I’ve seen, but never poked around in them. .
And also we are said to have a bunch of other variously crowned and titled folk, who signed every document these generations of my personal memory might have cared to memorize and recite. I have no idea which crowns or titles. I was assured, “a lot” as a young child. My siblings and I did not react properly, and asked about being American and we were all equal weren’t we? It was felt we were, perhaps, too young just yet, to take the point.
We might have some Stuarts way back. Hmmm. Or perhaps someone invented some. One can always ascend a bit, up the ancestor pile, with a little imagination.
Way back before me, one elderly female relative went on and on about Our Glorious Connections until my pre-school-aged uncle, fascinated, insisted on knowing exactly how many people needed to die before he got to be King. She told him not to be morbid, vulgar, or greedy, and not to make jokes: shushed him, then sent him away.
My Mom grew up in this daily soup. She would have laughed herself into fits over this book.
She did grow up listening to a lot of recitation. My Always-Right Grandmother was our natural family orator, with a fondness for epic historical documents and epic poetry.
Mom could do a bit of oratory herself, speed-oratory with eye-rolling, usually just after Always-Right Grandmother’s car left our driveway.
@f00l I should warn you: don’t eat or drink while reading/listening to this. It gets much better. I’m going to have to hit my local bookstore for ‘Confessions of a Failed Southern Lady’, another of hers that I don’t remember reading. It’s listed as a biography.
@OldCatLady
Milky Ivins was a tireless agitator, and a fine and hilarious writer, when she wasn’t busy plagiarizing Florence King. And she got everyone to start calling a certain person “Shrub”, including his fans and collaborators. She certainly did not invent the nick’, but more than anyone else, she made it stick. And her collected columns are still quite worth a read, to those who remember the contexts.
But as a writer she is not in Florence King’s class and never could have been. In part because they simply came from different strata, and Ivins could have never duplicated or faked King’s perspective. Ivins lacked the background - and, to a degree, she lacked iron inner core that came a sense of historical backbone.
That iron perspective did not come from the “upper classes” - it came from a time and place, and a sense of determined civility and dignity possessed by any who had the discipline to carry it. Many very very poor people of all races had it - and still do. Harper Lee illustrates this in what I found to be the most powerful moment in “Watchman”. Molly simply didn’t operate that way. It appears that Florence King did.
Thx for bringing me to Florence King.
@thismyusername WTF?! How?!
@narfcake
Once, you knew this.
<how quickly they forget>
/giphy tree climbing
@TickledLizard blames you @OldCatLady for the fact that they have been provoked by a fly for the last hour, and they can’t seem to do anything about it
@TickledLizard may just give up and catch up on their watch list (not my movie watch list though)
@OldCatLady
@TickledLizard is infuriated by the fact that the fly keeps on choosing to land on the head of @TickledLizard
@TickledLizard Lizards are supposed to catch flies. Are you sure it’s not a microdrone spying on you?
@OldCatLady
@TickledLizard supposes that @OldCatLady would have a point if there was a name change to @LeapinLizards as @Barney suggested in July.
As for it being a microdrone, @TickledLizard would have been alerted if it was one, although even if tit was, @TickledLizard hopes that whoever flew it enjoyed themselves.
@TickledLizard
The fly is likely just a warning.
An affectionate “reminder”.
I’m sure that someone, somewhere, might have a reason for sending this message.
/giphy sleeps with the fishes
@f00l
There’s a reason I’ve covered certain tracks of mine…
@OldCatLady
I Mega-Blame you
For @narfcake
@f00l Four more days of this. I can hold on, barely.
@f00l Because I’m not voting for you? That’s not a valid blame for the current goat.
(You know that’s the next goat’s fault!)
@narfcake
You and @mfladd acted in a very guilty manner last month.
You thought about it. You know you did.
And you got others thinking about it.
@f00l Last month, I unvoted you because you were more honest than @OldCatLady! Or at the very least, cheated less in your catshirt count.
@narfcake
Ok, I’ll try to forgive you.
And @mladd is currently AWOL
So much venom
So few potential targets.
What to do, what to do …
PS @OldCatLady and I sometimes vacation together, so I try to keep that relationship v positive.
@f00l @narfcake
What kind of venom?
@TickledLizard
rattlesnake, usually
you think i should switch to something else?
@f00l
It depends on how much entertainment you’re looking for.
@TickledLizard is pleased to report that after 20 hours, the fly is no more!!!
It was just no match for @TickledLizard s hand.
@TickledLizard
Apparently the fly had a family.
@OldCatLady
i know your energy and patience are wearing thin.
keep your chin up. this is waiting for you:
here are some of the crew
@f00l Yeah! Let’s pick up @Kidsandliz, she knows that life. Somebody has to be captain. I’m okay as crew, and I can even read charts.
Of00l @OldCatLady I’ll come. When do we leave? If we get kidnapped by pirates please no one pay the ransom until we have had at least a month’s vacation on a tall ship somewhere nice. OK? (by the way those photos are of different sailboats - I vote for the first ship - and OldCatLady usually most of the crew on tall ships are young, more than half typically are males so you should be happy).
@Kidsandliz I’ve never crewed on something that large. Can you tell who she is?
@Kidsandliz
yeah, i picked the first pix due to extreme and overwhelming sheer faint-worthy beauty.
http://ohmyluxury.com/luxury-sailing-yachts/
the crew pix i chose 'cause cute, and happy, and fun looking. wasn’t specifically looking for hunks and babes, just for people who might turn out to be hunks and babes but could also crew.
re vacation
i can’t read charts. i know nothing about being on the water except “don’t fall in”. so that will be my entire job for our vacation - i will personally commit to do my best to “not fall in”. this will take all my time and attention, and i will need a lot of coaching from the crew if i am to succeed. i am willing to commit to working at this 24/7/365.
(i will, however, feel free to jump in, or dive in.)
you all can split up the other necessary tasks among yourselves.
@f00l I’m in. I have experience with both tall ships and race boats.
@CaptAmehrican @Kidzandliz I don’t @f00l sounds useful enough to be aboard. Besides, he’s still in the running for Goatober; he might be too busy. I can dutifully take that place - I have plenty of daysailing experience (the principles are the same, right?). At least I know the bow from the stern & starboard from port.
Coming about!
@compunaut
I might not have the skills or experience. But. … Who has the gorgeous sailing vessel tricked out and ready? Stocked with craft beers? Hmmm?
@f00l I assume you’re now going to take credit for someone else’s hard work
/giphy for shame
@compunaut
I went to google. I found the vessel. I found the crew. And so forth.
And I intend to take credit for working very hard at trying diff beverages and not falling in.
I might take credit for appreciating various moments. But I don’t expect to steal your credit - I don’t wish to be called to do actual work. It’s best to know nothing.
@f00l Those who know nothing swab decks and do dishes. Oh and clean heads (toilets).
@Kidsandliz
I have already state that I will be in charge of “not falling in”. This activity goes nicely with lounge chairs, craft beers, or perhaps a chilled Riesling.
Let me check the vessel’s paperwork. Hmmm.
Yessiree. This vessel is “legally” under my command. By the standards of a Court of Google, people. Even if I happen to be lazy and incompetent.
Did I mention that I stocked it with a very attractive crew, a good craft beers selection, a serious wine selection, google internet, a chef from New Orleans who can’t stand not cooking, and other delights?
And that the crew loves to swab decks while wearing kilts? That they do it for fun on their off days, even when drunk?
@Kidsandliz, since you are competent and smart, you can be captain and in charge of all that seagoing stuff. Besides, at least one of my companions ought to be willing to be both sober and intelligent every so often. I hope the “sober once in a while” aspect isn’t too hard a burden. If it is, we can perhaps pass it around.
But I don’t see why everyone is worried about “work”. I have legally banished “work” from this vessel.
/giphy lounging
@narcake
Calling @narfcake
That giphy, above, was accidental and random.
But Still
Here, Kitty Kitty Kitty
/giphy leopard
@CaptAmehrican you worked on tall ships or just sailed on them?
@f00l Sober is easy - don’t drink. If you banish all work we will become an adrift floating garbage scow.
@Kidsandliz
As I child I knew people whose parents or grandparents took sailing vessel cruises every few years. Some of them booked cabins on larger vessels - others with $$$$$ chartered the entire vessel and took their families or friends.
“Work” was not a requirement for any of the persons who booked on these cruises, tho “work” was encouraged for anyone who wanted to be useful or learn something or was young.
Nothing about these excursions involved anything to do with “floating garbage”.
I intended a cruise into the realm of fantasy leisure, far from any care, surrounded by happy kilted crew who love to work, love to sing, and all have great voices.
<Ahem. That’s it. “Voices”. Great “voices.”>
If you are so insistent, Captain, then perhaps a tiny tiny bit of “work” won’t kill me.
You are a hard Taskmaster.
Sigh. Poor me. I suppose I’ll agree to do one or two things that are “good and useful” on this cruise.
Crap. Glad I stocked it will really good beer.
@Kidsandliz yes worked on Gazella and Pride 2. Plus a handful of CBGSR’s on various other schooners. Do we know each other in real life?
@CaptAmehrican Depends on when you did it. I didn’t work on those two, but am one of the people who helped organize the really early the Fells Point to Norfolk schooner races. I did one of them on the Norfolk Rebel - sailing tugboat out of Norfolk (was up and down the bay a lot on that one - unpaid as at that time I did something else for a living) and unfortunately we had to turn on the “iron genoa” so were disqualified that time. Another time I was third shift captain on I forget which boat. On yet another one I learned that Patagonia sailing rain gear fabric is not so waterproof in the really hard, stand with your back in the wind while being pelted all, night driving rain.
Did a lot of Norfolk stuff for visiting tall ships (often found cooking hundreds of hotdogs, or instructing Russian cadets that you do not put ketchup on the shell of lobster and do not eat the shell LOL) with the Fells Point yacht club that took care of those. I haven’t worked on one since 1993. Is Gazella still in TX? I think I sort of read it was elsewhere now. Sold maybe? I had always meant to go check it out when I am Houston for cancer checks but never had time.
We were in Baltimore a lot when I worked on the another schooner I have forgotten the name of and sometimes some of the crew on both boats would party. I was also a volunteer for the boats at Jamestown and sailed the two of those that went out.
I was on schooners in a number of 4th of July NYC parade of sails including once as a guest on the Uruguay navy class A ship. That was really cool. I worked on one in Scotland before it was sold to some Navy in the middle east. Plus worked for outward bound in Scotland (Loch Eil) and we sailed a lot in open boats.
When did you work on these? Miss the fun, being at sea (I remember one lovely day going from Gloucester back to Boston (home port that summer, inner harbor in shipyard quarters marina) where I was the only one on deck, steady wind on a broad reach, everyone else spent the day below working on the diesel engine, only a few other boats on “schooner watch” so nothing much to dodge, we were off shore enough it was pretty far in the distance and some whales came by. Because we had to get back we couldn’t just drift and watch them). Don’t miss the crappy pay, leaking chain locker so always wet bunk on one ship, nor some of the passengers.
@Kidsandliz of course I know the tugantine Norfolk Rebel. One of the oddest and most fun boats. The Briggs family are just spectacular people.
It sounds like we didn’t overlap but almost certain have friends in common.
@CaptAmehrican Yup they are. Write me off forum. Use my user name at yahoo.
One time I was on the Susan Constance (Jamestown foundation), just immediately after she got her cannons, going down the James River at around 6am. Ran into Lane and we had a bit of radio chat. He wanted to know if we had any beer on board. Um yup we did. So we told him we’d send him some (he did not know we had the cannons yet and we had turned so he couldn’t see them). So we put several down canon bores and shot them forward of his bow. Around a billion sea gulls made their exit off the James River Bridge with the sound as it echoed all over downtown Newport News (I am sure the people trying to sleep on a Saturday morning were happy with us). Anyway he went and fished them out of the water and then we heard him sputtering over the radio as he had forgotten that you don’t open beer than had just been shaken up LOL
@Kidsandliz Is this the Gazela?
@Kidsandliz
Ok. After that cannonball beer story, I concede all prerogatives.
You Are My Captain. I Will Obey.
Just shoot me some beer once in a while.
you got any vid of that delivery?
@compunaut yes
@f00l Nope no video. Pre-cell phone video days. Besides if you value your hearing you put your fingers in your ears as soon as you light it so not possible to video then anyway. Also it sounds like @CaptAmehrican needs to be the second captain aboard.
@Kidsandliz
Worthy people can be second in command
But after that beer cannonshot, forevermore, when we are aboard together, I am at your command.
Just keep your cannon loaded and cold beer handy for those downtimes.
I got an email on Saturday that my Verizon Yahoo password had been changed. Tried to fix it Sunday and discovered that my backup email ended in “mindspring.com” and wouldn’t work. Spent way too long trying to remember passwords and personal crap. Got it fixed. I think I got my backup fixed too. Yay! Apparently there was a massive data breach. Just got a text that they reset it again. Fuck, fuck, fuckity fuck. Once wasn’t enough? REALLY @OLDCATLADY?
@sammydog01 This is partial payback for everybody who voted for me.
@OldCatLady
Our Goat can Taste The Freedom!!
Our Goat has Stopped Caring!
Go, Goat! Run, Goat, Run! Make the break!
Congratulations.
I didn’t think you would do it, but you did.
You corrupted my 64Gb micro sd card.
To make matters worse, this one was the one in use on my Pi, so…
@TickledLizard
/image goat eating pie
@TickledLizard Damn, I’m good.
@OldCatLady
You better not touch my other micro sd card >_<
@TickledLizard I’m looking at it. You can’t stop me looking.
I’m unblaming you now for the donut.
I’m double blaming you for what the scale will read later.
@narfcake
You can’t talk about donuts without mentioning the type…
@TickledLizard
/image glazed strawberry shortcake donut
@OldCatLady
You’re East Coast Fl right? Near Jacksonville?
Any idea if there is still a Spudnuts in Bradenton?
Just OMG
If so:
Go in late evening (fresh out of the kitchen)
Cinnamon roll.
That is all.
@narfcake
I’d worry about more than just a scale reading
@narfcake now I have something new to blame @OldCatLady for. @OldCatLady it’s your fault that I am craving the diabetes-to-come that is those donuts @narfcake posted.
@f00l Spudnuts- apparently it’s called Turner Donut Shop, and I’ve never been there. Next road trip to the west coast/Tampa area, I’ll have to try it.
@OldCatLady
The Bradenton Spudnuts place used to be open 10pm-2am and the 5am-10am. This was a really long time ago.
Please note that it is effortless for me to recall their hours. I think that’s prob not one of the things I should recall?
If they still operate the same way, all the donuts are made in the over-midnight shift. The mornings are for distribution.
They used a special private mix of flour and potato flour. Spudnuts was a trademarked name - I found another one once, almost a decade later, southwest of Amarillo - in Deaf Smith County? In Plains? Or Seminole? Andrews? Some 1 stoplight town. Same recipe. .
Friends and I were on the way to El Paso for the hell of it. I drove down Main Street in whatever tiny town, saw the Spudnuts sign, made an immediate illegal u/turn without warning, and parked. I had terrified one friend. The other friend had been to the Bradenton Spudnuts.
We went in and ordered. A few min later a local cop strolled in to have a chat with me in particular. I tried to explain about the cinnamon rolls, one of which was on my plate. The cop seemed a little stern. until the owner joined the conversation and said: “that’s right, there’s one in Bradenton, Fl. And just as good. And if you don’t think these are worth a u-turn, I’ll tell your wife that she’ll have to do the pick-up for Sunday morning herself from now on, because I can’t trust your judgement.”
The cop laughed, paid for our cinnamon rolls, made us promise to follow the traffic signs; then left with several for home consumption.
I hope that if the franchise has died, the recipes are the same.
I mean, heavenly.
And the cinnamon rolls were about the size of a plate. They have or had a counter and a few tables and coffee or cokes. You could just sit and bask in the sugar smell.
@OldCatLady I am holding you responsible for the fact that not a single day has gone to plan this month. :|
@jbartus I did warn everybody. Really. I said
@OldCatLady Photo on the left - look up the words to “Scotsman clad in kilt left a bar one evening fair”…
oh wait - here they are:
Left a bar one evening fair
And one could tell by how he walked
He’d drunk more than his share
He stumbled on until
He could no longer keep his feet
Then staggered off into the grass
To sleep beside the street.
Refrain:
A ring-di-diddle-e-di do,
A-ring-di-diddle-i-day
He staggered off into the grass
To sleep beside the street.
A pair of young and lovely girls
Just happened to come by
And one said to the other,
With a twinkle in her eye:
“You see yon sleeping Scotsman,
So strong and handsome built…
I wonder if it’s true
What they don’t wear beneath the kilt?”
They crept upon the sleeping Scotsman,
Quiet as could be,
And lifted up his kilt above the waist,
So they could see…
And there, behold, for them to view,
Beneath his Scottish skirt
T’was nothing but
What God has graced him with upon his birth!
They marveled for a moment,
Then one said: "We’d best be gone.
But let’s leave a present for our friend
Before we move along!"
So as a gift, they left a blue silk ribbon,
Tied into a bow,
Around the Bonnie Star
The Scottish kilt did lift and show!
The Scotsman woke to Nature’s Call,
And stumbled towards a tree
Behind the bush, he lifts his kilt,
And gawks at what he sees!
Then, in a startled voice he says
To what’s before his eyes:
“I ken na’ whaur y’been, m’lad,
But I see y’won First Prize!”
@Kidsandliz I know that one! There are lots of dirty Scots drinking songs. Only the cleanest are popularized. Actually only small sections of Burns are repeatable. Try http://www.robertburns.org.uk/merrymuses.htm.
@OldCatLady
Unblame.
Had to order shorts online because every retailer forgets in Florida you can wear shorts year round, and that’s all I wear for work.
Bought 8 pairs of normally $25 a pair shorts for $7.50 each.
They actually fit.
Unblame.
Went to target and found my Chupa Chups (thanks for the tip @ELUNO), but! I found a few decorations for my house in the Halloween section. These are decorations I leave year round, because I’m weird like that. I always shop in the Halloween stuff looking for every day things.
Dark Blue mercury glass skull that is impossible to photograph properly.
This bottle thing.
And how fucking cute is this. I haven’t gotten a photo of a cat in it. Not sure about the ball, it’s loud. Knowing my one cat, he’ll tear it off since its just held in a hole in the cardboard.
@RiotDemon Hooray! I made a positive contribution!
@RiotDemon Nice score! I looked at the Chupa Chups but ten bucks seemed high. Love the skull!
@RiotDemon Year-round shorts to wear at work:
/image Hooters shorts
@RiotDemon For Halloween stuff, go to T.J. Maxx and Home Goods. They have really good stuff you won’t see anywhere else.
@OldCatLady I’ll definitely check them out. They’re in a plaza together, so it’ll be easy to go to both.
@sammydog01 I paid $10 to get 1lb shipped, so $10 for 2lbs seems a pretty ok price, comparatively. It’s ~80 lollipops.
@compunaut
@RiotDemon Haha; you can’t fool me. That’s not you at work.
You don’t even smoke
@RiotDemon
Where did you find that cute pix of @compunaut?
So busty!
/giphy doge wow hot
@f00l I did not know that doge is slang for a Shiba Inu. Trying to connect the Hooters disaster to the Shiba has me baffled.
@OldCatLady
Baffled is The Way Of Giphy
Perhaps soon we will no longer be mere Grasshoppers
/giphy doge baffled
/image Kung Fu
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Doge_(meme)
/giphy doge wise
@f00l I love doge.
/giphy doge
http://dogeweather.com
@RiotDemon @f00l Can’t mention doge without bringing up one of @marcee’s designs:
http://shirt.woot.com/offers/dogeball
@narfcake Aww good lookin’ out narf. Thanks!
@RiotDemon
/giphy syperdoge
@f00l
So that failed
/image superdoge
@f00l
/giphy "super doge"
Blame.
Had to trim my palm trees. They are spiny. I got poked a lot even though I wore gloves and long sleeve shirt. I also got bit a ton by fire ants. Why are these fucking things so hard to kill! Grr.
@RiotDemon
Next time you wanna trim your trees, I take care of that for you, but only if you kill a fly which is harassing me (as soon as I find one which is annoying me for hours on end after I trim your trees)?
@TickledLizard deal. I’ll gladly bring my vacuum to catch the fly.
@TickledLizard
Flies can feed and multiply in weird ways.
Yuck factor warning.
We got one in where I was staying w a friend. Killed it and there were 4. Then 20. We were spending all our time killing flies. Small place - we checked the doors and windows and looked for openings.
The we figured it out. Her idiot brother had stayed over the week before, had blood sugar issues. Tested his blood and threw some strips in random places behind stuff because stupid.
we cleaned the place like motherfuckers. Killing flies all the while. When the place was spotless, we killed the last few flies and that was that.
Although she thought for a while about killing her idiot brother.
She made him pay tho. Later that year she bought a house. He had to mow her lawn for an entire year. That was the price of her not telling their parents and his various gf’s about what he’d done.
I presume the blood glucose test strips encouraged 1 fly to become many. I really have no idea. It’s all heading toward squeamish for me.
JIC you wind up w more flies. I spoze other things can encourage 1 fly to become many.
@RiotDemon I can’t feel sorry for you if you live somewhere palm trees grow.
@RiotDemon Amdro stays in my garage year round, because fire ants don’t care about seasons. They are vicious, and I’d like to go just one year without getting bit.
@OldCatLady
You’d like to go a year without getting bit. In Florida. Huh?
/giphy Does Not Compute
@RiotDemon Best palm tree gauntlets: Toys R Us or similar always have superhero plastic hands or armor. If you don’t mind wearing Star Wars trooper gear, that works too. And it’s fun.
@OldCatLady damn good idea.
I have leather gauntlets too…
@OldCatLady they are vicious. My one ankle got the worst of it… I must have 26 bites just on the one ankle.
@RiotDemon I’m sorry. That is real torment, and even prescription strength antihistamine cream doesn’t work against that many. I think I’ll walk around tomorrow and see if I can kill some nests.
@OldCatLady I think I’ll have to do mound control and then just cover my entire lawn. It seems even when I do all the mounds following the instructions to go beyond the actual mound and watering it in, etc… I swear these things just move 15ft over. Or maybe I’ll try this instead:
/youtube aluminum ant mound
@OldCatLady
@RiotDemon
They’re everywhere. Not so much in city yards and on city/corp landscaped properties, but yes with rural yards unless owned by a gazillionaire, and yes with every single other location where there might be grass.
Fortunately I don’t have a huge reaction to them. They hurt for a while, then just look horrible for some days. I use cortisone cream, plus oral Zyrtec or Allegra or something and mostly just get mad and put up with it.
Never been mega-bitten tho.
In the country, even people wearing boots automatically watch where each foot goes down in order to avoid the worst of it.
I hate it when I step outta my car wearing sandals and then discover I have parked on top of the Fire Ant Galactic HQ entrance.
@f00l @RiotDemon Those are spectacular. Next time I have a forge handy I’ll make some. I’d rather just send mine to the Neighbors From Hell, though. Their back lot is half palmetto, half anthill.
/giphy "ant bite"
@RiotDemon
@OldCatLady
I must be a cosmic sicko. Or unworthy of enlightenment.
I did not feel enormous moral horror as the aluminum was being poured, for some reason.
@f00l Yeah, my attitude was more ‘die, you bastards!’.
@OldCatLady @f00l I don’t feel bad either.
@sammydog01 if you got that many fire ant bites you’d feel sorry…
@RiotDemon Next time when you work in the yard first fill a baby pool with water and set it near by so you can run and stand in the that when you disturb a nest. Gets them off faster with fewer bites.
I learned that via an accidental experiment where I was the treatment arm in the experiment. My worst experience from them was on a canoe trip. Two of us sat on the other side of a big tree from a fire ant hill we didn’t see (that was maybe 2’ high). Ran to the river - the hell with the copper heads and gators in there. The other person just ran trying to brush them off (control arm of the experiment) . I had far fewer bites - lots of floating dead ants in the water though. These days I usually get cellulitis from fire ant bites luckily then I didn’t.
Around here, when I had a house I lived in, I found battling them in the yard was like whack a mole - that white small granule fire ant killer seemed to work the best provided it didn’t rain for a few days. While I didn’t fill up a baby pool, I did fill up my canoe with water (emptying it was a pain though - too bad I didn’t own back then that outdoor shower with the electric pump you put in the water that meh sold LOL) and had to go stand in that a few times.
@Kidsandliz yeah, it’s always annoying to put stuff in the yard and then the rain wash it away. They always predict the weather wrong too.
I do have a hose close by in the yard, but in my experience, when the ants got wet, they would bite right away, so I just brush them off instead. Never thought about just standing in water.
I think the damn things were crawling in the actual tree though because I have a few bites behind my ear. Maybe I’ll just set the palm tree on fire. That’ll solve it.
/giphy "burning palm tree"
@RiotDemon The nest is going to be on the ground somewhere through so it may not be necessary to nuke the tree. Might be time to hire people to do the yard work. Presumably the know the risk of fire ants.
Tonight is the last country concert of the season. I get to go stand in a field and see Trace Adkins sing “Honkey Tonk Badonkadonk” in pouring rain with a moderate chance of tornadoes. Thanks a bunch @OldCatLady. I would take an umbrella but it would just increase my chances of getting hit by lightning.
@sammydog01 POIDH. Live streaming a tornado would be very cool. Maybe if you wore galoshes it would insulate you so a lightning strike wouldn’t be so bad. Just trying to help.
/giphy "lightning strike"
@sammydog01 No deadly umbrellas? Easy.
@sammydog01
So bring your backpack Recreational Vehicle. Come on.
Actually I would like to own a backpack RV.
@f00l Might be considered an RV to some:
/image GI Joe backpack vehicle
@ELUNO @OldCatLady I went with the slicker, shorts, and sandals. It poured, there was thunder and lightning and inches of mud. My phone said lightning 0.9 miles away. Coincidentally a house burst into flames a mile away after being struck. Well, Dragontrainer enjoyed it, didn’t get set on fire, and I haven’t had a visit from CPS for being stupid, so I guess it was OK? And the rain kept the assholes away which was a plus.
@sammydog01 Love outdoor concerts! I prefer the ones where I can sit on a grassy, ant-free hill. You survived, made memories, and didn’t catch fire, always good.
@OldCatLady @sammydog01 or just fly a kite and give it to someone behind you - ask them to hold it for you while you use your umbrella…
Who do I blame for the fact that nothing has gone wrong yet so far today?
@TickledLizard Ummm, I think that’s spozed to be an UNblame
@compunaut
One would think.
However, the universe has a thing for making each day of mine have at least 1 annoying thing happen to me.
I prefer to get them over with ASAP, because otherwise I never know when it will happen, and if something doesn’t happen one day, then when it finally happens, I’ll be miserable for a while.
@TickledLizard I don’t think the universe can remember which one is you
@compunaut @OldCatLady
Last night, I started trying to figure something out while I was preparing a piece of code (on paper, as opposed to using a program), but it was not making sense.
Roughly 6 hours later, I finally realized my mistake. Turns out, I had an extra line in, which at the time I told myself I didn’t need, but put in anyways.
Not only was it pointless, but it was flat out wrong, and had me going in circles.
So, while @OldCatLady gets an unblame for the universe finally messing with me (for Wednesday), at the same time, it is also blameworthy.
@TickledLizard
/giphy going in circles
A brand new, strong, tropical storm, Matthew, popped up overnight. Sometime in October we’ll have a tropical storm visit. Again. Can’t wait to blame the next goat.
@OldCatLady
Right now, tropical storms and hurricanes are still your fault.
But you have goat superpowers, so just leap free!
/giphy "super goat"
@OldCatLady Have you thought about just blaming @matthew for this?
@narfcake There’s an idea. I don’t think we have a Nicole, for the next one, though. No, this is a goat rope if there ever was one. Make sure you vote.
@OldCatLady @matthew needs the blame if it is his tropical storm.
@OldCatLady
@thismyusername I DID get a (soft) dart gun in my fuku today. Maybe target practice is in order. Yeah. @matthew, the pummeling will continue until you use your influence to steer that thing away from Jacksonville. Pow! Zap! Feel that?
UNBLAME
Many of you know I am obsessed with audiobooks. Ok ok. Whatever.
Here is one by an author who has some guts. Like more guts than me.
So thought it was worth a mention.
Audible Daily Deal
I Am Malala
by Malala Yousafzai
Narrated by Archie Panjabi
9 hrs and 55 mins
Unabridged Audiobook
$3.95
Price is valid until 11:59 pm Pacific Time.
https://mobile.audible.com/pd/Bios-Memoirs/I-Am-Malala-Audiobook/B00F9F8K8K
It is pouring and is supposed to keep pouring for three days. Ugh
@CaptAmehrican
I suppose you are now t having a perfect, lovely rain day. And your life is probably infested with annoyances and responsibilities.
But can you see it like this?:
"Now you even see the drops on the water…on the age-old rocky point…on the bayberry…on the grass…
Now take a deep breath–It’s raining on you!"
From a perfect, lovely book
Illustrations by the author:
@f00l Another sailboat with a female crew. A trend, it seems
@compunaut
Are you complaining?
You wish for an alternative?
@f00l what a lovely looking book.
@f00l Just an observation; don’t be testy
@CaptAmehrican
I have given so many copies of this book as gifts. It is a small, beautiful masterpiece, containing much grace; with depth for anyone who seeks it. And it can be as evocative for adults as for children; esp it you travel thru it slowly, and let each new page sink in
“Make Way For Ducklings”, “One Morning In Maine”, and “Blueberries For Sal”, by the same author, are, I think, all better known. “Ducklings” is a classic, and deservedly one of the biggest sellers ever.
But for me, this is the one.
If I see it in a used bookstore, I buy it.
I have sent it to many people who had young kids - and to several people having a tough time.
I love this book so much, that if anyone among the regulars here wanted to PM me at Woot with a name and address, I’d have Amazon send you a copy.
The full-size paperback with all the illustrations is only $6.99.
And the coast of Maine looks exactly like that.
This is one where you don’t want to get the audiobook.
1950’s - so the kids don’t wear life-vests and are remarkably unsupervised.
Time of Wonder (Picture Puffins) Paperback – June 15, 1989
by Robert McCloskey (Author)
Illustrated by Robert McCloskey
Original publication 1957
Winner, Caldecott Medal, 1958
https://www.amazon.com/Wonder-Picture-Puffins-Robert-McCloskey/dp/0140502017/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1475190735&sr=8-1
@compunaut
Not testy. Teasing out your apparent complaint.
/giphy crew
@f00l Thank you. I have a book baby shower to attend in two weeks and I was debating books. Make way for ducklings is my classic but they are from Boston so might already have it. I ordered this in hardcover as the shower gift.
@CaptAmehrican You have classier friends than I do. I just got an invitation to a wedding reception, asking coyly for ‘cruise cash’ instead of presents. In very lame verse. That particular cruise line sells ‘cruise cash’ in units of $50. and up.
@OldCatLady
I know people who have done that. If I like them, I forgive/overlook it, and attend the wedding anyway. I don’t give cash tho.
If I thought they were hurting, I’d give a separate gift of cash if I could - but not as a wedding gift.
I heard about a couple (friends of a co-worker) who had a trad wedding registry, and then a “secret” cash appeal registry. The couple’s parents found out, and got so angry that the couple almost eloped. The couple finally apologized and donated some $ to charity, and peace was restored.
@OldCatLady yeah as a rule of thumb if one feels the need to put gift request in poem it is usually a rude request.
Cruise cash request is super tacky.
@CaptAmehrican I have a book baby shower coming up but they want a gift too- separate sheets in the envelope. I’m thinking about “Skippyjon Jones” for the book.
@CaptAmehrican
When you get this - and anyone else who gets this for a gift - if it isn’t wrapped - well, wash your hands or wear gloves or something to keep it nice
And sit down with it. Forget the story. Take your time. This book is about Time and about Wonder.
So sink into each page, and let each page sink into you.
And perhaps the book will stay with you, and you with it, long years later.
Or perhaps you will want a copy for your own home. Some kids’ books were never really for kids, were they?
So it’s no brief history of Time. But it may be a brief meditation on what Lived Time might mean to some among us.
/giphy lived time
UNBLAME.
62 degrees F this morning.
@f00l I would call that a blame! I didn’t adjust my AC and I was freezing this morning when I woke up!
@ELUNO Nope, that’s an unblame.
@narfcake Frozen ELUNO is good?
@ELUNO If it’s not colder than my car’s AC vent, it’s not frozen.
@ELUNO Usually just defrost for 2min; then toast as usual
@compunaut Sounds delicious!
@OldCatLady,
I wondered at your being so quiet the last few days.
I bow before thee
/giphy awesome
@f00l
Anyone who wants to know the story, check the voting thread for the Oct 2016 Goat.
https://meh.com/forum/topics/wait-what-its-almost-october-time-to-find-the-next-goat--october-2016-nomination-thread
We got pwn’d. With consummate class.
@OldCatLady, you R00L!
@f00l Except that the Moon Moon sequence was solely for light entertainment, no deeper meaning. Don’t ask ‘What did she mean by that?’, because I didn’t mean anything. No koans here.
/giphy koan
@OldCatLady
Understand.
/giphy koan double-cross
Thanks, I had lots of help. Also, going to the symphony tomorrow, not tonight. Long story. Here’s some of my help:
@OldCatLady
I made a suggestion about where you got some of your wiles, over in the voting thread.
Pretty sure I’m onto something.
/giphy too damned smart.
I was going to unblame you one last time, but after that stunt,
SUCK IT, GOAT!
(Well played, BTW.)
@narfcake
Last time to blame @ OldCatLady?
What was that?
What do you mean, last time?
I got lots and lots of blame left.
@Hollboll knows. How will the court rule?
/giphy blame
@narfcake I can’t shake this (goat) feeling, though. Apparently all the meh staff took the weekend off!
@OldCatLady who is the new goat?
@CaptAmehrican Has not been announced. Some fuckwit is ‘stuffing’ the ballot boxes with lots of fake, newly registered usernames. Oddly, jbartus and f00l are getting most of the fake votes. I’m getting irritated.
@narfcake Load on the unblames. I’m still hauling around this goat badge. I’ve kicked, screamed, whined…
@OldCatLady don’t worry I actually think you were a good goat. Due to this thread I found a lovely kids book and also that another meh mehmber and I have friends in common. It has been nice having your civilized goat leadership. Now I wish you a goat burger and the ability to go back to being your cat lady self. Hum I wonder if you could get a kitten badge.
@CaptAmehrican I’ve enjoyed the heck out of the side discussions myself. I lived in Virginia Beach for 30+ years, and sailed with friends on their boats. It brought back good memories, including watching boats coming past the Norfolk Naval Station/NOB etc. whenever I could sneak up to the roof of the building.
I’m sorry, @OldCatLady, for thinking you were behind the ballot stuffing. The timing of your Moon Moon posts gave me the same thought as what @f00l thought, making the whole thing look plausible.
http://shirt.woot.com/offers/purrpetrator
So along with that, I had three catshirtswoot finds yesterday, a catshirtsteeturtle arrived, today’s catshirt …
… is 101 unblames good? It is October 1, afterall, and @dave still hasn’t passed the goat badge.
@narfcake I think @Dave and everyone else is having a hard time counting up the votes. I didn’t even know that there was shenanigans happening until everyone else started talking about ballot stuffing.
@narfcake Of course 101 unblames is good, thanks. As long as I get rid of this goat badge before the major hurricane (Matthew) hits here next week, I’ll return to my normal self.
@OldCatLady
Blame @matthew
It’s good for him.
Hey @Goat
Yeah, you.
@OldCatLady
Right now, this instant, you are guilty of something. In fact, prob more than 1 thing. Several things.
WTF
Billions And Billions
Guilty and Guilty
Will decide on something specific later. Yawn.
Yeah.
/giphy your fault
@f00l
Due to revisions to one’s understandings of the Facts, this Post about Billions and Billions of Guilts immediately above Is No Longer Applicable and Should Be Disregarded.
@thismyusername That’s pretty much how I feel, except with a target painted on my side.
@oldcatlady sorry i missed my chance, but my fuko delivery was Meh.
@Yoda_Daenerys It appears that I get another two days of service. I’ve never heard of a goat service animal, but now I are one. Blame accepted.
@OldCatLady
Run free, Moon Moon
/giphy Moon
To make you feel better about still goating
Oh and this is what @eluno looks like except holding a spider.
@CaptAmehrican aww, I hope he snuggles up close to that spider.
@CaptAmehrican @RiotDemon Aww you really think we look that snuggly?
This is what my future kid will look like:
@OldCatLady’ll give you an unblame. Found some cool stuff at Home Goods. A black skull candle that “bleeds” out of its eyes, and stacked skull tapers.
They had a bunch of other cool stuff, just not stuff I needed. Like a beverage dispenser sitting on skulls.
I don’t have pictures, sorry.
@RiotDemon a skull candle that bleeds wax out its eyes however counts as a need?
@CaptAmehrican Yes- in fact I must drive to Home Goods and buy one for myself now that I need one.
@sammydog01 @RiotDemon You do know about giftcardgranny, right? I buy e-gift cards for the Home Goods, TJMaxx and Marshalls chain there, for an average 15% discount. You print it out, they scan it, you put it back in your pocket for next time.
@RiotDemon
I started reading the post, and didn’t have to look at the UID to see who wrote it.
Bravo re your find!
@RiotDemon I found several friends at TJ Maxx.
@OldCatLady nope, never heard of that. Another unblame!
@CaptAmehrican absolutely. I need weird things to decorate with.
@f00l I think I’m starting to get predictable… Oops.
@RiotDemon
Nah. I just knew that an early find of the best stuff was likely to be your post.
@f00l currently burning my skull so it bleeds. I’m hoping it makes a cool pattern and I can keep it half burnt.
But I found another item today:
New doormat. So another unblame for poor @OldCatLady who is still goat.
@CaptAmehrican
I’m thinking Shakespeare, surely.
For @OldCatLady
I tried to find a really good show performance recording of this song. listened to a bunch of them. Either the audio or video was wanting.
And this song must be more difficult than I realized. I saw it in the original Fantasticks off-Broadway theater setting, some decades back, and it seemed effortless to that cast.
So now perhaps Julie Andrews’ version will have to do. . Of course she nails it.