Mehmbership woes
9TL;DR mehmbership is no longer worth it to me, and I’m one of those trashy people who announces their departure like they’re flying an A380 out of JFK.
In December of last year I was invited to join Amazon Vine, and the near-immediate availability of “free” crap that flows from it has almost completely cured me of what I thought was a formerly robust deal-a-day website habit.
But it’s more than that, because my usage of meh was already severely curtailed in the past 15 months, partly because meh no longer offers IRKs in the same way it did in the past, but also because the stuff for sale here just isn’t as good anymore.
So I’m re-evaluating my relationship with meh.
I’ve been a member since 2019, and have placed orders here and on mediocritee, SideDeal, and Casemates.
In 2021, I ordered 24 things from meh, plus one thing from mediocritee and one from SideDeal. 17 of those things were IRKs, and the total spent was something like $242, including the monthly membership fees. I was happy to pay my $4.99 per month to get free shipping on all those orders, and I got the little extra rushes of hope that the next IRK would be full of cool stuff.
In 2022, I ordered 3 things from meh—the April Fool’s IRK and two other things, plus 2 things from mediocritee. I paid $59.88 in membership fees for the privilege of free shipping on those 5 items.
After almost 3 full months of 2023, I haven’t made a single purchase.
In my mind, I had written off the $59.88 per year as something I would be glad to pay just to support mercatalyst, because they’ve given me no small measure of joy for many years, and it felt good to contribute even if I wasn’t ordering.
But now IRKs are harder to get than ever before, sometimes requiring us to spend $50 or $100 on other stuff for the privilege of buying one. I’m finding almost nothing that I want to buy in the daily deals, and the stuff that shows up in mehrathons seems like even lower quality than before.
I suppose all this could be me updating my expectations based on the fact that I now have a faucet of cheap trash that will show up to my door in 2 days whenever I want it to, but in reality, I think meh has changed for the worse, whether or not I’ve also changed.
And looking at the membership page, I find myself wondering where the members-only coupon codes and private events are.
So bye, $4.99 monthly mehmbership fee. If I order in 2023, I’ll pay for shipping, and it probably won’t cost as much. I wish everyone at mercatalyst the best, but it ain’t happening for me anymore.
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I totally agree if this is how they function going forward there is no longer a perk to membership. I absolutely hate the new IRK buying format. I also think the quality of stuff in the IRK has declined. I actually got 2 different shoes in 2 different sizes. Really meh??
@kcface The regret is strong with this one.
But yeah my last IRK was pretty regrettable. Most recent one just shipped, will see in a few days.
Honestly I have kept my Mehmbership mostly because of the related wine site.
I’m in the same boat… sinking ship… I’ve been going month to month debating whether to let go of my VMP. I agree 100% with all of your points. Thanks for posting this, hope you have a good flight
Only thing I miss since I canceled my membership is not being able to use the “/showme” command to get AI generated artwork. Sucks more now tho since they have a “New and Improved” version. Oh well, I’ll survive. Oh, and BTW … meh SUX!!
/giphy you suck
@IndifferentDude
interesting user name …
@chienfou It usually applies to me unless I get IRK’ed (or don’t as has happened lately). I had a consecutive streak of 33 IRK’s going but that ended in Oct. of 2022. Once the Incremental (up to $200 IRK w/ $5 coupons) appeared followed by the now standard $50 one (along with the option to get it for a penny ) I stopped. It was fun while it lasted and I had rec’d a mix of good and junk boxes. Oh well.
¯\_(ツ)_/¯
@IndifferentDude
you apparently mastered the IRK game much better than I. I have only gotten a few, and similarly they were hit or miss quality wise.
@chienfou @IndifferentDude yikes man…bitter much? So aggressive! lol
I get it…Mehmbership may not be a valuable enough for you now, but, you did get 33 IRKs…
@chienfou @IndifferentDude @PHRoG Yeah, I’m sorry but I just can’t muster up a whole lot of sympathy for someone who’s gotten 33 of them…
@PHRoG Actually had MORE but missed 1 here & there. Several FUKO’s too but who’s counting?
@Kyeh But … they were so easy to get!! I was always dumbfounded by how many say they NEVER got one. Oh well, whoever wants 'em at $50 (or FREE to .01) can have 'em. From how many have posted (or were too ashamed to post) their recent IRK’s it looks like the # of ex-members will soon outnumber mehmbers.
@IndifferentDude lol…wellllll…apparently, you are!
Honestly, still curious why you’re so upset though? It’s not like this just a one-off-vent post…you’ve be all over the forums bitchin’ about Meh lately.
@IndifferentDude @Kyeh for some it was easy, for others…clearly it wasn’t. I’m actually really happy to see a bunch of folks that have struggled to get them finally get to be a part of the fun now!
I have a strong run too…but, don’t believe mehmbership will really suffer. I’d argue a large portion of them weren’t in it for just the IRKs (non-mehmbers could get them too).
Even if they did lose a bunch…said loss would have to outweigh the profit gains from they’re getting from the new IRK model.
@PHRoG You’ve noticed my other posts too? Cool. Was hoping someone would. I’m not upset; just disappointed in meh’s new direction. And I see I’m not alone since others have said the same, and more, as I have. But on the bright side, I am saving over $60 a year now!
/giphy money
@IndifferentDude Ooooo, you’re going to piss off a lot of people if they bother to read this. No, for some people they weren’t easy to get at all. I got a decent number, but not 33. And I just can’t feel sorry that your streak has ended because … meh!
@Kyeh For what it’s worth, I was more than willing to share my “method” of how to score an IRK with those wanting to know how. I’m only using an old computer with Windows 7 and have just a 30Mbps download speed. Far from what most folks have. My only reason (as far as I can guess) is that I used Google a lot which I am told gave me an easier path to get an IRK as it made it so I rarely got a “Capt-cha”. I also updated my clock during the mehrathons to ensure I’d be exact in hitting the button as soon as possible. I also made the page smaller so the entire order page showed and I didn’t have to scroll to get to the “Buy It” button. That’s all I did. Didn’t always work but I kept trying throughout the day and was fortunate to score one.
@chienfou @IndifferentDude @Kyeh @PHRoG Yeah, I’m pretty much tapped out there too.
Even with my 9 years of mehmbership, I only think I ever got 3 [or at absolute max 4] IRKs.
@IndifferentDude Well, as I said, I’ve scored a decent number of them myself, but a lot of people haven’t for whatever reason, so I don’t think they’re going to feel sympathetic to your rant. 🫤
/showme oil painting, still life, jar with 5 dollars worth of pennies
@mediocrebot Damn, that’s actually pretty good. Reminded me that in college I was once charged a $5 fee for something that I didn’t agree with and fought it because that’s what I did back then. Eventually I had to pay but did it with 500 pennies, most of which I think came from my mother’s finds from metal-detecting that she did at the time. I brought a container (think it was a metal can) of 500 pennies up to the cashier at the university, and though they were reluctant, I said « It’s OK, really » and walked away. At least they never billed me for the $5 again so I guess it was accepted.
@pmarin Oh, to be young and energetic again.
I want to say “I’d love to do that, but I probably wouldn’t have had the guts to go through with it” — but I don’t actually know what it was. It would depend on how much I disagreed with it, I suppose. (but I can be pretty disagreeable)
Back then, at least in the first couple years of college, my weekly food budget was only $5-10, so a $5 fee would be a big deal. (unless it was rolled in with tuition or books or something big like that)
@pmarin You are not the first to do this…https://www.spokesman.com/stories/1997/oct/04/wallace-pays-really-heavy-fine/
@pmarin Do you ever wonder now if that penny collection had some rare coins in it?
https://www.thesprucecrafts.com/the-most-valuable-pennies-4151629
@mediocrebot @pmarin About a decade ago, before my county invested tax payer loot into building a better tax-collecting office, we had a little small “store-front” type of office that would hold about a dozen people standing on each other’s toes. The remainder of everybody stood outside in a line that went about half way around the block, on the deadline day for paying property taxes. Once inside, you waited on one of two cashiers at the counter.
I had just managed to make it inside when I realized a lady in front of me was pulling a little red wagon with boxes on it.
Long story short: She took about twenty minutes of everybody’s time doling out her thousands of dollars of taxes in Susan B Anthony dollar coins, which had to be individually counted. I never heard any explanation of WHY.
Some people were amused, some not so much.
@mediocrebot @phendrick @pmarin Coulda been pennies…
Just sayin’
/giphy coulda been pennies
/showme that coffee I just bought for more than five dollars
@capnjb
https://shirt.woot.com/offers/now-thats-just-overpriced-13
@capnjb When I pay 5 bucks for coffee I expect it to do something for me.
@btwonder @capnjb
@blaineg @capnjb “Father of… oh I can never remember his name.”
Wait, you are complaining as a member? Come on. You know you can cancel it right before your month ends, and then you wait until you see something that is worth the $6 shipping. This is likely only going to be the case on casemates. Otherwise, there are plenty of other cheap deal sites, and lord knows the non-branded crap can be had on alibaba, temu, etc. and you actually get to choose it!
FFS TEMU sent me a working drone that records video and has 3 axis gimbal, 2 water pipes, a grinder all for having 5 people download the app, register, delete it. That is more than meh has ever sent me for being a VMP. Which is about the lowest hurdle to clear, since it is zilch.
I will give it another month. Maybe volunteer to be a GOAT and see if they will send me an irk with absolute garbage beauty stuff from sister sites.
Echoing everyone else. Why are we here? Remember when they were experiments in ecommerce? I think they are all out of experiments to try.
@KNmeh7 Your drone has 3 axis gimbal, 2 water pipes, and a grinder?
Does it make coffee?
@blaineg Margaritas.
@blaineg @KNmeh7 Is this cockney rhyming slang? What do these words mean?
@KNmeh7 do you have any other recommendations for sites that have deals?
/showme group of angry shoppers boycotting membership fees in front of the CEO’s house
@mediocrebot I like to zoom in on these things and be horrified. This picture did not disappoint.
/showme group of angry shoppers boycotting membership fees in front of the CEO’s house in Texas
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@KNmeh7 I think they’re protesting against Mediocrebot instead.
@KNmeh7 @narfcake mediocrebot is an A-hole.
/showme Texan CEO riding his Onewheel by the pool
/showme I make a lot of bad decisions for more than $5 a month like buying a bunch of Slim Jims. With a narwhal. And a spider.
@mediocrebot Lacking some narwhal.
/showme Giant narwhal over Detroit.
@mediocrebot I’m good with this. Take my $5.
/showme man eating ice cream, but the waffle cone is really the horn of a narwhal
@mediocrebot nice
@mediocrebot Gene Simmons?
/showme irrational mathematical number
@mediocrebot Anybody crack that code?
(Or does that code come from crack?)
/showme a giant narwhal climbing the Empire State Building while holding Fay Wray
@mediocrebot OK I guess. Faceless Fay.
@heartny @mediocrebot Looks like Ahab got involved.
/showme fay wray climbing the empire state building while holding a narwhal
/showme the answer to the ultimate question
@mediocrebot An illiterate AI.
/showme a narwhal and manatee walking into a bar
@mediocrebot That’s actually kind of adorable
My current woe was figuring out if my membership was worth it. According to my profile, it says I made 78 orders (1 being an IRK). But if you add all the times I bought 2 items or more in those orders, it’s really 93. Having paid for VMP for 88 months, I feel the membership has been worth it. Even more so when you had the extra 20 orders I made across Morningsave and Sidedeal (not including any promo codes). So yeah, I don’t see myself leaving VMP for quite a while.
I never canceled but somehow my membership just disappeared. Took that as a sign especially since as much as I would love to spend 50-100 bucks on crap I need it to be weird to make it worth it otherwise it’s just crap and that’s sad.
New woe: Wondering if I should include photos of the Meh purchased clothes I’m wearing to celebrate this occasion of my first ever IRK arriving today as I get pictures ready for the reveal of my IRK contents.
@JT954 You should!