Thrift stores are not dumping grounds: Shoddy Goods 082
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For thrift stores, the beginning of the year can be the best of times (all those post-holiday donations) and the worst of times (all those post-holiday donations). Jason Toon here. This edition of Shoddy Goods, the newsletter about consumer culture from Meh, is a call for a bit of thoughtfulness when passing on your unwanted stuff.

My teenage daughter recently did a big clean-out of her room that was less like housework than an archaeological dig. She weeded out a carload of clutter that’s been in there untouched for years. I looked in the donation pile and while there was plenty of good stuff, there were also things like partially burnt candles, torn-up school folders, and full notebooks - junk that if she didn’t have a use for, nobody would.
So it was time for a lesson about the difference between a generous donation and turning your mess into someone else’s problem. It’s a good impulse to want to keep things out of the landfill. I can understand erring on the side of re-use. But the fact is, there are things that are going to end up in a landfill or recycled anyway. Dumping it on a thrift store and letting them sort it out is the opposite of generous. They have to spend time on sorting it, and spend money on commercial waste disposal.
“Only between 10 and 30 percent of second-hand donations to charity shops are actually resold in store,” writes Oliver Franklin-Wallis, author of Wasteland: The Secret World of Waste and the Urgent Search for a Cleaner Future. “The problem is that, with the onslaught of fast fashion, these donations are too often now another means of trash disposal.” Here’s how to avoid adding to the problem.
NO: Straight-up trash
If it’s opened and consumable, it’s a no-go. No used cosmetics, lotion, toiletries, cleaning products, or, obviously, food. That also goes for things that are consumable in other ways, like lightbulbs, paper towels, and the aforementioned candles and notebooks. Plastic food containers probably aren’t good, either: they retain stains, smells, and germs.

Used cosmetics AND broken glass? That’s a double no
Anything stained is a no, especially the more intimate the stain is. No used mattresses or bedding. No towels or washcloths unless they’re new with the tags still attached. No broken or chipped glass, no matter how cool that mirror’s frame is. If you’d feel outrageously ripped-off paying money for this thing, don’t donate it.
NO: Maybe useful to someone but thrift stores can’t sell it
There might be some life left in these items, but they’re impossible for thrift stores to sell. We’re talking baby equipment like car seats and playpens, which these charities are not set up to make sure are in safe working condition. Same for safety gear like bike helmets and personal protective equipment. There might be other charities in your area that can pass these along to someone in need, or you could check local giveaway groups on social media.
Construction materials, fixtures, large exercise machines, weapons, and tools (especially with sharp blades) are also good candidates for selling or giving away to someone else, but thrift stores can’t do anything with them. Some electronics, too, although chances are that old fax machine and flip phone need to go to the recyclers. Oh, and no thrift store wants fixer-uppers - they don’t have some workshop in the back to bring that broken lamp back to life - but you might find a taker in your community.
TRIPLE HELL NO: Anything vermin-infested
(Trigger warning: EWWWW!) I’m mentioning this story just to show that bad donations can do much more damage than waste a volunteer’s time. Last month, a thrift store volunteer in Daylesford, Victoria, Australia opened a bag of donated items and was immediately set upon by a swarm of mature bed bugs. “She didn’t even get a chance to put her hands in the bag when they ran up her arm,” another volunteer said. “She’s traumatised and has bites everywhere.” The shop had to destroy most of their stock and pay to have the entire building professionally cleaned, raising fears it might have to go out of business altogether. Locals raised AU$14,000 to keep the shop open, but that’s AU$14,000 that could have been used for something else. Whether the donor was just oblivious, or some horrid little shit with a moronic sense of humor, the effect is just as devastating. Don’t be that guy.

DO NOT WANT
MAYBE: Check the store’s guidelines
There are some variations in what stores will accept. Some take magazines, some don’t. Some love getting furniture donations, others don’t have the floor space. Some will take certain appliances, others won’t. Stores that do take electronics often have age cut-off points. Check the store’s website for their rules, or call them up and ask. There’s no excuse for saying you don’t know.
YES: The good stuff
So then what’s left? The things that someone might conceivably buy. Clean clothes and accessories in good condition. Books and recorded media in good condition. Toys and sports equipment in good condition. (Notice a pattern here?) For kitchen stuff, clean and intact ceramic, metal, and glass items are always sought-after.
“We have a rule of thumb that we like to share with donors … before they give something to Goodwill, they should ask themselves if the item is something that they would feel comfortable giving to a friend or neighbor,” Brendan Hurley of Goodwill told The TODAY Show. In your heart, you know the answer.
And don’t just leave it outside if the store’s closed
I know, I know, you’re tired of driving around with those bags in your car. You planned this drop-off trip and now you’ll have to change your plans. The store’s donation hours are so inconvenient. You’re trying to be generous, dammit! Who are they to dictate to you? They should be happy to get your castoffs under any circumstances!
Just stop. Doing this is the same as throwing a bag of trash out of your car window. Somebody’s going to have to clean it up, probably the volunteers who mostly staff these organizations. They usually can’t even resell any of it after it’s been left out in the elements. And as commercial entities, thrift stores have to pay for their trash collection and recycling.

Just dumping it in the woods would at least be honest. Photo by Redditor I_Am_The_Bookwyrm
Donors “come in at 10:00 p.m. or in the middle of the night or run behind the store and drop off a ripped-up sofa,” said Rolf Halverson of Goodwill to KEPR-TV News. “And that adds weight to our trash. So they put the bill on us instead of them.” Not very generous after all, is it?
In an ironic twist, the same daughter of mine who put together that very mixed donation pile just started a volunteer job sorting donations at a thrift store. If my little lesson didn’t sink in, I’m sure it will soon. And maybe that’s why this issue suddenly feels personal to me: somebody’s son or daughter has to pick through all that stuff. Let’s try to make it easy on ‘em, huh?
Growing up I both donated things to the thrift stores and got school clothes from them. Oddly, not the same ones though - I wasn’t in control enough to know why, but presumably my mom had some distinct criteria for where the good stuff was. And then of course in my late teens and early 20s probably 75% of my ‘new to me’ clothes were found scouring the racks at the local Goodwill.
How about you? Any memories of either donating or getting stuff from thrift stores growing up? Let’s talk about it in this week’s Shoddy Goods chat…
>—Dave (and the rest of Meh)
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My shirt.woot collection wouldn’t have been as big as it is if it weren’t for thrift stores. During their 5-year shirt.woot anniversary celebration, over half my collection was from secondary sources, hence the “unverified” labeling.
Nowadays, I don’t bother so much for shirts. Goodwill was up to $5.99 for used t-shirts the last time I checked. I still shop other thrift stores for the randomness, however.
Also we’ve had multiple thrift store threads here on the forums.
I was the youngest of 4, 3 of them boys. I wore handme downs all the time! It was no problem, just the way things were. Why waste the money? We also got new clothes, shoes and underwear of course lol.
As an adult, I’m a fan of thrift stores for clothing and wall art sometimes. Depends on what it is.
We didn’t have any “good” thrift stores nearby. Just some dusty consignment shops.
So we made do with cheap clothes and hand-me-downs from my million older sisters.
I used to work for Tacoma Goodwill in Washington state. I was in the online sales department, which was at the Operations Center. I used to dig through the giant bins of crap people donated, and yeah… there was a hell of a lot of just plain garbage, plus disgusting things like Grandma’s dishes with moldy food all over them from her funeral or whatever. People can really suck when they’re ‘being charitable’.
@Pony
That’s horrible, I at least donate clean stuff so it won’t get thrown away.
@Star2236 Bless you for that. People seem to think thrift stores have built-in laundromats to wash the nasty dirty clothes they donate, or I don’t know- enchanted Disney mice to scrub the glassware? Ugh.
I am someone who tries to keep from throwing away useful stuff. Clothing in good condition, no stains or little wear is washed and folded before going to charity shop.
Also good kitchen items are washed and in usable condition.
If you have old bedding, sheets and towels, it doesn’t matter if they are stained and worn, just as long as they are clean, your veterinarian or animal rescue will be happy to accept them.
I have some rental properties and former tenants leave a lot of useful stuff and I hate to just fill up the dumpster with them
@lonocat Yep.
@lonocat
Omg I’m so with you, I hate filling up the landfill. My boyfriend always tells me to throw away crap as I’m salvaging every bit I can. I donate to a clothing drive that recycles clothing and I try to find happy homes for odds and ends. I held onto magic bullet accessories for like 8 years till I gave them away at a garage sale and I was so happy.
In central Virginia, Habitat for Humanity runs Re-Stores that accept some construction materials, fixtures, working electronics, working appliances, some exercise machines, and tools. Also, desks, bedroom and living room furniture. Check online in your area. I have a friend that found a brand new walk-in tub for about $500.
@tbgolladay We have 4 ReStores in the Tulsa area. As a landlord, I’ve found replacement fixtures and even glass globes that match! They also have a more homegoods type of resale shop. We took 4 pickup truck loads of good stuff there when mom passed.
@tbgolladay I have donated to, bought from, and volunteered at the RVA Re-Stores. It’s amazing what can be found there and usually in great condition.
The audacity of moral hand wringing about being thoughtful and considerate to communities when y’all gleefully use GAI. Hypocritical assholes.
@DrunkCat Hey now, a lot of respected professionals use the Geriatric Anxiety Inventory in their practices and get useful results.
you’re an all-star
Thank you! My daughter spent a couple of years working in our local ARC thrift store. She has lots of stories of stained, torn clothing, clothing that reeked of cigarette smoke, and dirty, broken toys. The people who dropped off the worst stuff were most likely to want a donation receipt to claim on their taxes.
Being from a large(7 kids) family; we did the hand-me-downs thing until to clothes were rags. We got some new clothes for holidays; mostly because we ended to ‘look’ presentable for church activities. We gave to the Purple Heart goodwill store often and shopped there as well. My parents (children of the depression) were always reminding us that we were to donate thing that could be used’ by some one else. I taught my kids that lesson also.
Shopped all manner of thrift stores for neckties, mostly donations from the estate of . . . It started when I curated an ugly tie contest at school. The uglier or more out of date, the better. I have about 600 ties now. Wore them nearly every day for 40 years until COVID, then stopped cold turkey, except for church. Still looking for the ultimate novelty tie, the one of the naked woman whose tits light up. I know it’s out there. If you’ve seen it, send photos - no AI or Photoshopped accepted.
We were very poor growing up. I might have grown up on a lake but that doesn’t mean I come from money at all. I always wanted the lifestyle my friends lived, the rich ones but now I’m so happy I didn’t bc I’m so content and happy with what I have and not earning for more. It taught me a lot of valuable principles that I think kids don’t get taught today (mostly I think bc parents strive to give their children a better life than they had). I loved thrift stores (before they were the cool place to shop). Today they’re so expensive from what they used to be, I about laugh at the prices half of the time. My mom was a big garage sales person when I was younger as opposed to thrift shops so that’s where my clothes came from. I still love a good bargain at a garage sale and am not ashamed to buy clothes from them. When I moved out for the first time (at 27) I garage sales till I dropped and found the best stuff for my place, it was awesome (along with thrifting). I do like to donate to Purple Heart, good will, salvo, ext, as @jkawaguchi said bc I’ve shopped there many times and I can’t stand to throw stuff in the land fill. A couple years ago I donated like 125 boxes, it was crazy. I was just in salvo this summer and bought some Jean shorts, I can’t stand the high waist trend so salvo was really the best option for Jean shorts. I’d go there again this summer too, clothing is ridiculously expensive from what it needs to be or should be.
POPSOCKETS! ROAD ROCKETS! SONNY CROCKETT! AWESOME!
If you have old towels, rags, sheets, or blankets that are not suitable to be donated to the Goodwill type of places, animal rescues and shelters may need them.
My friend who is on the board of a dog rescue always takes my old towels even if they have some holes in them. The puppies don’t care about the holes.
@cbatte Yep- I’ve donated a lot of old bedding and towels to animal rescues. They’re always happy to get them.
I got a huge mechanical engineering book for 99 cents.
I recently donated some barely used lulu lemon running shoes.