đ”Jingle Bell, Jingle Bell, Jingle Bell Blameđ” (Dec 2019 Blame Thread)
11Ho, Ho, Ho Mehrry Mehmas.
Have yourself a Mehrry little Christmas, may all your blames be shared.
Just in time to round out the end of the year. Hanukkah blame? You got it. Kwanzaa blame? You got it. Winter blame? You got it. New yearâs Eve blame? You got it.
Sorry @bleedmichigan
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Well mine blame thread was way more eloquent @riotdemon
@bleedmichigan oops. I beat you by one minute.
@bleedmichigan @RiotDemon But not official- this has the volmod seal of approval.
In substitution for @riotdemon âs Poorly worded blame thread opening ( I know it my fault he did not have a class where I could teach him eloquent intros) I submit my own copies from the unofficial blame thread, it was a perfect thread.
A month of celebration, the end of one year and the beginnings of another, I time to reflect and a time to wipe the slate clean. Welcome to the December blame thread. I @bleedmichigan soon to be supreme Meh overlord look forward to your adulation, your blame, your unblame and anything else you throw my way. I voluntold for this job or so I hear. So let the blaming begin for I am the Wizard of Winter Blame.
/giphy wizard in winter
@bleedmichigan No the title of the other one was better⊠Short, to the point, with out all those extra words you used here. I blame the ABD in you for that.
By the way, do the stunt I did with my dissertation to save money on all those bound, cotton paper copies you have to make⊠Shave 1 point off the double space and move the margins out just a tiny, tiny bit. I made mine 25 pages longer that way. I turned it copies to my committee for all the drafts and defense that didnât have those âchangesâ as sometimes committees are influenced by length. It was just when I turned it in for the official bull crap I had to do that cost a fortune that I shaved off pages. 125 pages, 150 pages who cared. It still had the same number of words.
@bleedmichigan Lost my edit time. Meant to say made mine 25 pages shorter that way not longer - your fault goat. And also meant to say I turned in the long copies to my committee and short copies where I was charged by the page. By the way - the best dissertation is a done dissertation. Just make the changes they want, get it over with and signed off on. I made one short change after my defense when they signed off on it, I then changed that change back on the copies I turned in because they were wrong on that particular fact and I didnât want something wrong in there. They never knew.
Also you can change what you want if you ever publish it or parts of it. Just get it done. I also found it easier to write the entire first 3 chapters in full for the proposal defense. That way I wasnât faced with a ton of writing when I was done with the research. Just had to screw with chapters 4 and 5. Easier to finish when not faced with expanding the lit review. Good luck getting finished.
@bleedmichigan I am a college dropout. Iâm also not a he.
@bleedmichigan
I suggest you apologize now.
@RiotDemon my apologies I did not see a spot on your Meh profile for your preferred pronoun.
@bleedmichigan @RiotDemon I meant apologize for the other part.
@bleedmichigan My preferred pronoun is âHis Honourâ
@bleedmichigan
I donât think @RiotDemonâs intro is all that poorly worded.
I think she just wrote intending a diff tone and mood and intention than yours. Not all writing has to be up for formal publication.
That said, you do seem to write rather well.
(Well, maybe, except, when we wanna judge you harshly for no particular reason except that we enjoy being âhonorable Goat-baiting assholesâ.)
Good thing you can write, what with the Edu intentions and all that.
/giphy good handwriting
@therealjrn your majesty
@RiotDemon @sammydog01 what part? Other part you say? I could have taught high school. May god have mercy on my soul. I have no qualms with anyone who decides college is not for them. I dropped out once from college and decided to go back. Nothing wrong with @riotdwmon deciding that if that is what you were speaking about. Now I am sorry about the incorrect pronoun but live and learn.
@bleedmichigan @f00l I really donât care about the pronoun being wrong. I was just informing you because a lot of people assume Iâm male.
As for my grammar in the OP, I donât really care either. I was singing Christmas jingles and then decided that December isnât just about Christmas blame.
@bleedmichigan @therealjrn Didnât you mean to say: âYour hineyâŠâ?
ITâS A CHRISTMAS MIRACLE
@therealjrn Its a Festivus Miracle.
/giphy Festivus Miracle
Is it time now for the airing of grievances?
@ybmuG Ooo, youâre good.
@therealjrn No, Iâve just watched too much TV over the yearsâŠ
@therealjrn @ybmuG feats of strength
@bleedmichigan @therealjrn Until you pin me, Festivus is not over!
@bleedmichigan @therealjrn @ybmuG
/image festivus pole
@therealjrn @ybmuG
/giphy pinned
@therealjrn itâs for the rest of us
OK so your fault I had to move my blame and unblames from the day one thread over to hereâŠ
Blame!! Someone left 7 puppies with their eyes still closed taped up in a box and left outside (it is in the low 40âs).
UNblame: A utility company person found them and brought them to the no kill shelter. I pulled in right after him to donate a bunch of blankets, one fleece one was pulled to cover them up. Was send to go get puppy milk. UNblame: Petsmart matched chewyâs price so 11 bucks off a can of powered. UNblame: got back with the milk and helped bottle feed some extremely hungry puppies. Unblame: the no kill shelter found someone willing to take care of them until they are old enough to be in the shelter.
Goat Iâd say you won that round if only counting unblames EXCEPT abandoning little babies trumps all the unblames.
@Kidsandliz
/giphy puppies
@Kidsandliz aaawww. Rhat sounds like an Amazon experience for you. Poor puppies.
@Kidsandliz oh Liz lucky you! That sounds wonderful to feed them! Also thank you for all you do for the animals!!
@Kidsandliz damn spell check. That was suppose to say amazing experience.
I guess I will blame @bleedingmichigan for my fat fingers and my phones inability to read my mind!
@tinamarie1974 No worries. While the goat canât, apparently, read your mind. I did. (so watch out!! LOL).
@moonhat @tinamarie1974 I bottle fed my 18.5 year old cat from about 10 days old. Hadnât done that since with any animal. Puppies, especially ones who hadnât eaten in way too long, were easy to feed. They practically inhaled the milk. Glad I am not the one who is doing it until they are ready to be weaned though as they need fed every couple of hours and I like my sleep at night (grin). But yes they were snuggly little things who looked so blissfully happy once they were about 1/2 way though the bottle.
@Kidsandliz @moonhat I have had the opportunity to feed both a baby pig and baby tiger by bottle. Both pretty cool!! But never a puppy!!
Oh, actually the odd baby goat as well! There are a few attractions locally that have baby goats and for $1-$2 you can bottle feed them. But the goats are crazy. They all gang up on you, jumping, chewing your clothes, etc trying to get that bottle! Oh the competition, it can be a little overwhelming.
/giphy bottle feeding goat
@Kidsandliz oh in that case I should apologize. Who knows what you heard when you were reading my mind lol!!
@Kidsandliz @tinamarie1974 that sounds heavenly!
@tinamarie1974 Donât worry - Iâll only use what I heard for blackmail purposes. Otherwise Iâll never tell (smirk).
@moonhat @tinamarie1974 Now a baby tiger would be really cool. I once got to hold one - about the size of a full grown cat only with a really huge head. He fell asleep in my lap so the owner told me to go ahead and keep holding him while the little kids were in there petting him. That lasted about 45 min and then he woke up hungry so off to his mother (in a cage nearby). That was so cool!!
Then when I went home (this was a previous set of cats) my cats went so nuts over the smell of that baby that I had to take my clothes off and put them on the floor. They sniffed those clothes for close to 4 hours. Never knew cats had an attention span that long. I do wonder what really old reflexive part of their little brains that odor woke up.
@Kidsandliz Sorry, but I beg to differ, as rescuing and feeding abandonated puppies completely trumps said abandination.
@Kidsandliz âŠI know because my S-I-L and niece both foster rescues and our two pups are rescues.
My S-I-L is the rescueâs go-to for pregnant female rescues, as well as special needs puppies, and puppies in general, so while we do see a lot of sadness, it is greatly outweighed by the joy we all experience from contributing to caring for these rescues.
/giphy rescue dogs
@PhysAssist
??? What do you mean abandination?
@Kidsandliz If the puppies were abandonated, then the process was abandonation⊠[just me being a goofâŠ]
/giphy abandonated
@Kidsandliz Whoops, timed out on the /giphy editingâŠ
/giphy abandonated puppies
@Kidsandliz âŠand:
/giphy rescue the puppies
@PhysAssist Thanks for the explanation
@PhysAssist @Kidsandliz
So, as a compadre goof, does one use âorientedâ or âorientationâ?
/image one does not simply
Wouldnât âabandonatedâ be a past tense gerund (or âgerundedâ) form of the verb âto abandonâ? Or some weird declension (or âdeclensionated formâ) that is a legacy from Latin?
@Kidsandliz @mike808 Firstly: as a well-raised true American, I use the only proper term- oriented.
I was taught that only total boors, and some of those speaking some other nonsense language [alleged to be âthe Queenâs Englishâ] use that orientated bushwah.
Secundus: As a 3rd [and in some cases 4th or 5th] generation son of several families which immigrated from Deutschland who took exactly 1 semester of college German, Iâm going to have to go with the first choice.
Sadly, despite my medical education and way too many years of on-the-job training/exposure to various amounts of Latin, my understanding of, and ability to parse it out are simply shitty.
Iâm glad though that you consider me a comradeâŠ
If I have correctly read last months blame thread, I am allowed to make my own rules. Correct @ybmuG ? If so to place any blame on me you must use the more apply titled blame thread titled Santaâs Bag of Coal. If I am incorrect you can blame me
@bleedmichigan
/image rotflmao
no idea why that wonât come up except in another tab. Hereâs the image
@bleedmichigan nah, that doesnât work. We can place blame in any thread.
@bleedmichigan @RiotDemon Hells ya. KaL has posted at least 3 different places about her puppy blame. Didnât you notice? Maybe she needs to make it itâs own thread.
@bleedmichigan @RiotDemon @therealjrn Nope just 2 threads hunting for the right one. Thank you though for spending your valuable time making sure you read all my posts. Glad to entertain you. .
@bleedmichigan @Kidsandliz @RiotDemon @therealjrn
Now if only the fucking scapegoat mediocrebot worked so that we actually could give blame in any other topic.
ants fucking works, but no scapegoat.
/blame blame
@bleedmichigan hey, my only rule break was in giving myself an unblame. I exercised no restrictions on blames received (like that would be effective anyway)!
@ybmuG no I was saying you set a precedent I was just expanding the power. Itâs how a dictator gets his power.
@bleedmichigan @ybmuG canât argue with the Goatâs logic. If someone set a precedent, next Goat can make Blame Rules.
Sounds reasonable to me!
@bleedmichigan @JnKL @ybmuG There is one flaw in this logic though⊠that the scapegoat has the power to even be a dictator. In this case I think the inmates have over run the asylum.
@JnKL @Kidsandliz @ybmuG if the kids have over run the university then it is logical for the goat to over run meh.
@bleedmichigan @JnKL letâs just be clear on who the precedent setter wasâŠright @JnKL?
@JnKL @ybmuG
/giphy double precedent
I blame the Goat for my order of Xmas tree ornaments that I donât need but had to purchase anyway.
https://meh.com/forum/topics/2-pack-meh-face-christmas-ornaments#5de5efa469aac70e50bf1825
In case anyone wondered, the universe is laughing at me right now.
@f00l hey, you should know that same kid is laughing at you over on the ornament thread âŠ
@stolicat
That kid follows me around laughing at me.
@f00l @stolicat Ahh but the key question - is that kid starring your posts? (snicker). One person who follows me around and comments never stars my posts. /I am so deprived He who has the most
toysstarred posts when they die wins. Right?Unblame the Starbucks holiday contest started today and i entered the free to play way and have already won a holiday drink and some stars
@CaptAmehrican blame because Starbucks is nasty so Iâm sorry for you.
@CaptAmehrican You seem to win tons of things between this, all that stuff from Amazon (speaking of which I havenât seen those emails in ages, I wonder if that program stopped - canât even remember where the list was located that listed all the open give aways to check) - where you click on the box to see if you won⊠Whereâd you buy your luck from? . Congrats!
@Kidsandliz i enter contests all the time . Fyi those Amazon giveaways ended.
It is free to enter daily
https://www.starbucksforlife.com
@bleedmichigan @CaptAmehrican
Starbucks is simply well-marketed, slightly above the usual fast food quality, fast food.
As fast food, itâs fine.
If you make excellent quality coffee at home, or if you habituate an area with excellent trad espresso places, congrats!
@CaptAmehrican @f00l Actually Starbucks is the purveyors of that nasty black liquid. I donât drink coffee so I dislike Starbucks.
/giphy coffee yuck
@bleedmichigan Iâm with you!
Thatâs why I mainline Diet Mountain DewâŠ
The only dark brown to black liquids I ever drink are beersâŠ
FWIW, my 2 current favorites are Spider Bite Breweryâs âBoris the Spiderâ- a Russian Imperial Stout, and Single Cut Breweryâs âHeavy Boots Made of Leadâ, an American Imperial Stout.
Blame :I and friends of mine do stuff for lots of nonprofits. Every single one has their hand out for giving Tuesday. It is making me feel like such a scrooge
@CaptAmehrican
I suspect you do quite a bit of teeth-gritting, also, as mentioned elsewhere: a âgiftâ to certain persons who are permanently part of your life.
Hey. Charity is charity. It counts!
/giphy charity
@f00l Often, maybe even mostly, when you talk using giphy it makes little sense.
@f00l But uh, my apologies for not understanding.
@therealjrn
Yes
Targeted and possibly amusing irrelevant or off-the-wall non-sense is a fav of mine.
/giphy nonsense
I apologize for failing to pre-announce your apology.
/giphy pre-
@f00l Iâm sorry, I failed to anticipate your apology for not pre-apologizing. I do apologize for the oversight.
@therealjrn
Since I did not create a preview trailer for your latest apology, I owe you for that.
/giphy apology trailer
@thismyusername Ahh, old GĂ€vvy! Distant cousin, I think.
Blame because Poison (Motlsy Crue, Def Leppard and Joan Jett) their stadium tour schedule and STL is NOT listed. Phuf Bret Michael WTF
@tinamarie1974 But maroon5 is coming in August.
/giphy adam levine
@mike808 oh I do love me some AL, but for different reasons
/giphy eye candy
@tinamarie1974 Iâm not even a concert person but that one does sound really fun! I saw itâll be in seattle, maybe Iâll go. Or maybe not.
@moonhat yeah I am trying to talk my friends into a Chicago road trip, but sadly the do not seem to be taking the bait. Clearly they are not as adventurous as me haha
Blame because I ordered that robot vacuum/mop a few weeks ago from Morningsave. Just arrived in the mail and they sent me the wrong modelâŠvacuum only. BBAAHHHH
Yeah I already reached out to CS and am waiting for their reply. I was just all excited to play with it tonight
@tinamarie1974
That sucks.
Even more because youâre blaming in the wrong thread.
BLAME HERE.
@mike808 so we are not suppose to use the broadcast thread? I am blaming the scapegoat and sending @bleedmichigan 30 to 50 feral hogs
@bleedmichigan is a mean one, Mr. Grinch.
@bleedmichigan @tinamarie1974
Send hugs, not hogs.
Also, ants be sometimes broke, sometimes not.
Scapegoats gotta scape goats.
@bleedmichigan @tinamarie1974
Sending 30 to 50 feral hogs.
@bleedmichigan @mike808 blame the scapegoat because the hogs are broke!!
@bleedmichigan doesnât drink during Robanukah, like a heathen.
@bleedmichigan @mike808 unblame because @chadp is amazing and has already addressed my issue⊠after 11 pm no less!!
/giphy applause
@bleedmichigan @ChadP @mike808 @tinamarie1974 After 11 pm can sometimes be the best time to address issues.
@bleedmichigan @ChadP @therealjrn @tinamarie1974
And after 3am is usually when the issues return.
@bleedmichigan @ChadP @mike808 @therealjrn that sounds like a personal problem???
/giphy giggle
Unblame.
Ordered pizza online with a 50% off coupon. When I show up to pay, it was running behind so they gave me another 50% off. Plus he said he liked my shirt.
So I got a pizza and some wings for $9. It was one minute late.
Score.
@RiotDemon but was it good pizza?
@bleedmichigan pizza was good. Wings were lacking so I was extra glad that I basically got them for free and then some.
Iâm watching Bad Santa 2 on cable TV. Weirdly, they are killing all the f-words, but leaving in all the shits, damns and dumbassâs. Itâs very weird. And who knew the Bad Santa 2 movie had so many f-words? Fuck. Thereâs a lot of them.
Blame because @therealjrn used f-word instead of saying FUCK. Thus fucking up @carl669 fuck count
@bleedmichigan tells children that Santa isnât real.
@carl669 @tinamarie1974 Well f-word me.
I guess I fucking did. Dammit.
@tinamarie1974 well fuckity fucking balls @therealjrn⊠way to fuck up the Christmas fuck count!
@mediocrebot neither is @ChadP
Nutz
@cranky1950 t-minus 7 days and those are getting fixed
Unblame. @tinamarie1974
#ww1984 trailer is out.
@mike808 Swinging from lightning bolts - I want one âŠ
Not so sure I could take 2 hours of that music, though âŠ
@mike808 That looks bad ass!! I think I should change my user name or TM74 lol
/giphy So excited
@mike808
/giphy gal gadot
Blame! BLAME! Most fowl!
Two days of hunting deer and not a single good shot to be had.
All your fault, Goat!
@JnKL You can have all of these. Fine wagyu well-marbled deer. Every fucking day they pillage the landscaping. These 8 are part of the âsmallâ herd.
@JnKL @mike808 Are they grade W?
@JnKL @mike808 is that in front of your house?
@mike808 on my way!
@JnKL @mike808 chances the deer are missed and the house is hitâŠ100%
Blame because I was JUST in a car accident. I am OK, the Beast will need a new bumper
@tinamarie1974 glad you are ok.
@tinamarie1974 glad it was just the bumper and not anything worse for you or the car. But what a PITA to have to deal with it.
@Kidsandliz huge PITA. The guy was trying to beat traffic so he could order McDonalds
At this point, my back and neck are both really sore, wondering if I pulled something. Giving it until at least this afternoon before checking it out.
@Kidsandliz and now I am at the hospital because the pain is getting worse. Well fuck
@tinamarie1974 Hope it is just whiplash. That can be really painful though.
@RiotDemon @tinamarie1974 Glad youâre basically OK. Smart to get yourself checked out!
@RiotDemon @therealjrn yeah my parents insisted after I told them.
@tinamarie1974 glad it isnât worse.
I want to know why you would name your faithful steed, Beast? I thought you had an invisible jet?
@JnKL the beast is my everyday vehicle (sounds imposing) and she and I have been on many a crazy adventure. The âinvisible jetâ is my secret weekend car
@JnKL @tinamarie1974 well that sucks! I assume everything checked out ok?
/giphy invisible jet
@Kidsandliz @tinamarie1974 perhaps the worst thing to ever be in an accident for.
BLAME: Shoveled a spot for yekoP to do his business, and he wades nethers-deep into the snow anyway. And with the snow weâve had, it takes 5 min or so to get it out of his coat!
@ybmuG poor baby!
@ybmuG and wait till spring when you step in it. Mine has decided that business is done in the driveway. It was all good till the wife slipped in a pee spot.
So I just ran to Sonic to grab a soda and decided to âtreat myaelfâ to cinnasnacks. For those of you that donât know they are little fluffy puff pastry like pillows of cinnamon goodness with white powdered sugar frosting. Delicious and oh so bad for you.
So the waitress comes out with my order (after I paid) and says oh by the way, we are out of icing. That is not an issue, right?
Really? Why would I want my dessert with me icing.
/giphy son of a bitch
@tinamarie1974 Sounds like tarted up hipster beignets.
/image beignets
@mike808 I have had both and can say nope, very different. Both delicious in their own way
/image cinnasnack
@tinamarie1974 LAME!
@tinamarie1974 Oh. I see. More like a failed croissant trying its best to be a churro.
/image chocolate croissant
@mike808 I guess but still delicious. If it is a mistake, it was a serendipitous one
@tinamarie1974 Iâll still take Parisian patisserie croissants over Sonic cinnasnacks any day.
@mike808 well duh, who wouldnât!
BLAME: Took my car to get an oil change and got it back with a $346 repair bill!!! UUBLAME in the sense that I got it fixed before it broke in the middle of a 1000 mile one way) drive but BLAME as it was expense!!! Good thing for credit cards but when the piper needs paid next month thereâs likely to be more blame.
Blame!
Iâve been busy.
I would apologize, but âŠ
@therealjrn is handling my apologies for me while I am dealing with off-forum PITA issues.
I apologize, in case @therealjrn let the forums down in this regard.
Blame! My neighbor who works at a âfitness centerâ changed to a different one. Now she canât get me the special friends and family rate. Iâm going to have to go to the nearby spa and yoga center.
I live in Virginia. My daughter is in college in Virginia. The care package I sent her for finals week is in Iowa. Do you even own a map, USPS?
@sammydog01 USPS just announced that the package would be late. No shit Sherlock. I paid $20 for priority mail. I donât suppose I get a refund if it takes over 3 days, do I?
@sammydog01 priority mail is a non-guaranteed service. Sorry Charlie
/image sad face
@tinamarie1974 So I paid extra for them to deliver it whenever the fuck they felt like it? IS THIS WHERE MY TAX DOLLARS GO?
@sammydog01 uuuummmm yes and no. The post office is no longer ran by the Govât. Management was outsourced years ago.
@tinamarie1974 Fine, THIS IS WHERE MY STAMP DOLLARS GO?
@sammydog01
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My Amazon order they somehow manager to lose the order after they showed it as 4 stops away and before they made it to my door. I was home and this is something i really wanted so i was watching the map and they were 3 blocks away when suddenly opps lost it
@CaptAmehrican I have had a lot of similar issues as of late with amazon logistics
@CaptAmehrican My Chewy order has been out for delivery since last Friday. Itâs changed toâdelivery date unknownâ.
@CaptAmehrican @OldCatLady The ghosts next door are eating your dog biscuits.
My Morningsave beard trimmer came in an hand-ripped-opened white bag taped up clumsily with twisted clear packing tape. What the hell? Whoâs opening my mail for me?
@therealjrn so it was packaged to meet âmehâ standards
/define meh
No exact matches found for the specified word.
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@tinamarie1974 âMediocreâ fur shure
Unblame I laughed when this showed up as an Amazon suggested game
Goat Lords Game for Family, Adults, and Kids. Hilarious, Addictive, and Competitive Fun for Game Nights! https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01HQZ99US/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_mgR8DbWGC91JN
Unblame because someone created THIS!!!
@tinamarie1974 But BLAME because you canât own one. Right?
@bleedmichigan spiked the eggnog.
@Kidsandliz @tinamarie1974 why not?
@Kidsandliz own what? The jersey? I have several including that particular design. The baby? He can be pre ordered on Amazon. The cup? I get my replica Monday!!! Giddy with joy over here.
@tinamarie1974 I had thought this was a âminiatureâ (eg small toy sized) set of things that someone made by hand to display on a shelf or something; something that couldnât be bought in that size.
@Kidsandliz oh I wish. That would be super cute and I am so obsessed with Baby Yoda right now.
@tinamarie1974 So does the replica you bought have all the names engraved on it?
@Kidsandliz I will find out Monday, but I doubt it. It is a giveaway at Mondays game
Unblame. Science humor
@Kidsandliz
/giphy mind blown
My daughterâs care package that I shipped from Virginia to a couple of hundred miles away in Virginia on Monday left Des Moines, Iowa on Wednesday. The USPS says:
I paid twenty bucks to ship it priority.
I pick her up Tuesday afternoon. What are the chances she gets it before then? Or ever?
Looks like Iâm shipping cookies UPS this year.
@sammydog01 Itâs a very bad USPS!
@ybmuG I just hope this is a cornfield it will return from.
@sammydog01 They never doâŠ
@sammydog01 Virginia to Iowa to Virginia and we wonder why USPS is not profitable
@bleedmichigan @sammydog01
USPS is not profitable because it is congressionally mandated to make no profit, nor to burden the taxpayers. It pays its own way. It also cannot pick and choose which areas and citizens it services based on how profitable or rural or rich/poor or language, gender, marital status, and yes, even national origin.
Now, if you were talking UPS (big brown), then if the management elected by the shareholders allows such wasteful practices, then it is up to the shareholders to appoint new management. Much like our government, but not.
@mike808 @sammydog01 ok so how about instead of saying profitable I say solvent.
@bleedmichigan @sammydog01
It is solvent. It is congressionally mandated to be solvent. The USPS does not lose money any more than it makes money.
I donât think that word means what you think it means.
Also, in all commerce, you, the recipient, are not the customer. The shipper is. So your option is that if you donât like who your vendors/suppliers choose as their shippers, your only remedy is to not purchase from them, and to purchase goods from another supplier that uses a shipping carrier that you approve of.
No different than choosing a supplier/vendor based on the quality of the items they sell or the specific brands they carry.
It may cost you more to use a supplier/vendor that ships your purchases using a carrier you approve of. Such is the price of discrimination.
@mike808 @sammydog01 sorry but USPS is far from solvent. Numerous articles to point you to that explain how for away USPS is from solvency. So here is but one. https://www.federaltimes.com/management/2019/04/30/how-to-solve-the-usps-financial-death-spiral/
While there is a lot that rides on Congress, cost of a stamp, funding of pensions etc the simple fact is that costs are out pacing income and have been for a while. As for selecting shippers, I really donât care. I was commenting on @sammydog01 s comment about a package from Va to Va that was in Iowa. Extra miles on a package do not make it cost less to deliver while the cost to move one package a extra long ways to go a very short ways does not help the bottom line. On top of that Priority mail is is supposed to be 1-3 days to most places. Lots of time priority ends up in the 4 day range which is first class territory. Either way the wifeâs father was a postal employee. Interestingly he delivered one of the Unibomberâs packages unknowingly to the University of Michigan
Everyone will be pleased to learn that the box did indeed leave the cornfields of Iowa and is currently in Washington DC, probably protesting the abuse of packages by the USPS.
My daughter wonât be able to pick it up for a month now and I expect it will arrive by then. Hopefully the cookies wonât get mold all over the MAD magazine.
In other news I shipped cookies this Monday to my brother 3 states over, UPS ground, and he received them the next day. Live and learn.
@bleedmichigan Cool story.
BLAME: So in prep for TROS next week, weâre watching the Stars Wars movies in the chronological order of the galaxy far away - started with episodes I-III (ew - I forget how badly written and produced they are), did not do the animated series (only have so much time), moved onto Solo and Rogue One (still one of the best in the series), then Epsiodes IV-VI: yay - Empire is still the best, even with the Lucas-izing.
Then this weekend it was to be The Mandalorian so weâd be in on all the baby yoda stuff, and holy shit, that was the worse streaming experience Iâve had since, well, ever. And I thought Amazon was flaky âŠ
First, I thought Iâd be clever and avoid any problems with our sometimes-not-too-swift rural internet service by downloading the episodes ahead of time, something I usually do with other services for convenience. Not a one of the six episodes would play, giving an annoying and unhelpful âOh No, somethingâs wrong with [program title]â message. So I deleted the downloads and we tried streaming, and I think the longest we got it to run was about 5 minutes before it would either crash out with the above âOh Noâ message, or just go black, or else freeze on one frame although the audio would continue on and then it would crash. I would have to restart the app, sometimes restart the device to regain control. When it did run it was full of compression artifacts and skipping sound and changing volume levels.
Weâre using a new iPad Pro with gobs of memory, directly connected to the TV with the HDMI adaptor, a very solid connection with no sticks or pucks or WiFi airspace to confuse any issues. I had an internet connection monitor running on the desktop and didnât see any problems with our service. I looked at DownDetector and some other monitoring sites and Disney has had and has a whole lot of problems, living up to (or down to) the reporting Iâd seen since it started. Does everyone have these problems?
Next weekend, back to DVDs for Episodes VII & VIII - but last night, worse viewing party EVER! Do something, Goat!
@stolicat Try downloading from an alternate source?
@mike808 Iâm not a big fan of sketchy websites with unlicensed material, Iâve had my system toasted a couple times from them. Besides, I pay money for this, it should work.
I did do more futzing today on it seems to be related to the Apple HDMI adaptor. The downloads play fine on the iThing by itself, but when the adaptor is connected it gets the Oh No message immediately. This setup works fine with other services (iTunes, Amazon, HBO) so itâs something wonky in the Disney app. Streaming works better without the adaptor also. I double-checked the adaptor connection with other services (to ensure it wasnât damaged) and they still work fine.
If there are others out there using Disney and iThings, Iâd like to know how youâre connected up. I contacted Disney CS and theyâve âescalatedâ it for expert examination.
@mike808 @stolicat airplay from my iPad to my Apple TV streams Disney+ perfect
I blame Rare.
Blame. I drug myself out of bed at 7am on my day off to make sure I got my Christmas decorations and cords out of the lawn, because the lawn service usually shows up between 7:30 and 8a. They didnât show up until almost 1.
I could of slept in.
Unblame. Turns out I had another vacation day I needed to take so now Iâm off three days instead of two. Woohoo.
BLAME! Iâm trying to finish making my Christmas cards but Silhouette Studio keeps crashing when I try to switch over to the sketch function. I canât foil my cards without that working.
Iâve shut down and restarted my computer, and even updated it. Iâve turned off and unplugged my machine. Iâve even moved the blade carriage back and forth several times. Still freezes up. I need the cards for tomorrowâs Christmas party at work.
/giphy Christmas card
BLAME Day 2 of the vasectomy is a pain quite literally.
@bleedmichigan, you have no one to blame but yourself lol
/giphy sad
@tinamarie1974 actually I could blame the surgeon for the 3 punctures and two small stitched area in my scrotum but maybe that is sharing too much. Iâll just take the blame.
@bleedmichigan doesnât drink during Robanukah, like a heathen.
Gaah! I got suckered into throwing down some real dosh on one of those S&D iPhones at Woot today. Now Iâm regretting, worried about just how S&D this thing is gonna turn up.
Why wasnât the goat in my ear telling me to âput that damn credit card away!â
@ruouttaurmind why buy S&D when you can buy possibly stolen on Craigslist?
@bleedmichigan Iâve read the product discussions in prior Woot S&D sales and I guess itâs not unheard of to get a blacklisted phone even from them.
@ruouttaurmind ummmmm then why buy one?
@bleedmichigan If itâs not a blacklisted phone and it works as it should, it was about $100 less than an identical phone on eBay. If there is a problem, Iâm confident Woot will do a return/refund without much grief. For the hundred bucks Iâm possibly saving, it was a calculated (minimal) risk.
@ruouttaurmind well then I blame for the $100 savings and the thrill
@bleedmichigan is to blame for my lack of knowledge regarding multi-cultural winter holidays.
Blame! Last night my car was tossed, very professionally. No actual damage, and they didnât even take the camera off the windshield. Stress level=elevated. Unblame: talking with the neighbors, it turns out one used to install security cameras, and heâll install mine.
@OldCatLady
Tossed like this?
@bleedmichigan No, but I like the idea.
@bleedmichigan @OldCatLady
Or more like thisâŠ
@bleedmichigan @mike808 where are the photos? I blame the goat that they donât show on my computer. Just empty white space. Not even a blue square with a white ? in it.
@bleedmichigan tried to rob Kevinâs house while his family was out of town.
@Kidsandliz @mike808 slow internet?
/giphy buffering
@mediocrebot
/giphy wet bandits
@bleedmichigan @mike808 Slow internet was it. Today the photo/video shows up. Humorous.
Blame: because sick with a fever. Missed my dads bday and the Star Wars movie (pre purchased tickets) hoping I feel better before my Christmas Eve/Christmas Day parties
/giphy frustrated
Unblame as I finally got some meds from the doc yesterday (took a few tries - first time they claimed I had a viral infection so nothing but tylenol). Went from a 102 fever to normal. Penicillin is a miracle drug lol
@tinamarie1974 well not sure how being sick forced you to miss Star Wars. All those Star Wars fans are sick in the head, itâs Star Trek or bust.
/giphy Picard
@bleedmichigan so the 102 fever and feeling like I was ran over by a bus made it difficult to get out of bed. I was NOT going to make it to the show, nor did I want to get anyone else sick.
As far as SW vs ST I like them both for different reasons. Donât ask me to choose between Kirk and Picard! And as far as SW, it has always been Yoda. The new baby Yoda development on the Mandalorian has me ecstatic!
BLAME!!! I have a traumatic ear drum puncture complete with blood and am sitting in ER at 10:30 at night while over tired. I was just told I need follow up. I now get to decide if I am going to stay here longer than I had planned where it will cost me money I donât have to keep staying here (and money at the other end to keep boarding cats) to be seen by a department ranked at #19 in the country or go home as planned on the 28/29th and get seen in an unranked dept. Shit shit shit. Oh wait - for @carl669âs fuck count: fuck fuck fuck. And it hurts like hell too.
@Kidsandliz How the fuck did that happen?
Note to self: Donât clear earwax with ice pick or screwdriver.
Did you watch the last episode of Evil?
Sorry to hear that. (no pun intended)
I hope it heals quickly and doesnât cause hearing loss. Tough call on the stay for better care or not dilemma.
@Kidsandliz @mike808 omg I thought of that episode as I was reading her post! Sounds painful!!
@Kidsandliz rankings are over rated.
@Kidsandliz
/giphy feel better
@Kidsandliz Please keep updating. Some people worry, you know.
@tinamarie1974 @bleedmichigan @OldCatLady Thank you. Sorry. Out of town at my momâs and no time to be on the internet there (the to do list is pretty long and getting it all done is not a for sure given).
Have a hole. Given ear drops which sting like crazy when they hit the hole. Part of the pain, I was told, is the swelling, part of it is from a bone bruise by the jaw joint (lucky nothing broke there), and part because it just hurts to do that. The really loud ringing and muffled hearing is taking time to get used to.
Told to make an apt to see ENT there Friday. Letâs hope I can get one since I have to leave, at the very latest, Sunday. Doesnât hurt as much today but my hearing is sure affected (although I do have some very muffled hearing in that ear). They did say if the hole closed on its own likely Iâd recover most of my hearing, perhaps nearly all. So that is at least a plus.
If not, or if not completely, then Iâd need to get the hole patched. I sure as heck will not get that done in at an unranked hospital with an unranked ENT department in a state ranked in the bottom 3 in the nation with respect to health care (itâs a race to the bottom where I live) so I might have to stay here longer and rearrange all sorts of stuff to do that, rob a bank⊠So I have my fingers crossed. Iâll know more Friday about that.
@mike808 - how the fuck did that happen? No pick axes or drills or filed down elbows. Long story that involved a number of things that had to go wrong in just the right way. Pure bad luck. And I donât know anything about a tv show called evil (only have over the air stations). Not sure I want to hunt on the internet for that as you and @tinamarie1974 seem to imply it is gruesome.
At least the two cats I brought with me are doing OK.
@bleedmichigan @Kidsandliz @mike808 @OldCatLady
Hope you get well soon, whichever route you take. BTW Evil is on CBS, check it out. It is a good show
@bleedmichigan @Kidsandliz @OldCatLady @tinamarie1974
Link to the show referenced to watch for free (for now). Episode is called â7 swans a singingâ.
Iâm hooked. Glad it got picked up for season 2.
https://www.cbs.com/shows/evil/video/5FiNrNPHhwhQb4ct8yDrlL1MTcnRP4_f/evil-7-swans-a-singin/
@bleedmichigan @mike808 @OldCatLady @tinamarie1974 When I get home Iâll look up the show and url unless I find time while mom is at a meal to watch it. Thanks for the url.
BLAME - called to make the apt Friday and there are none until Jan 3. Canât stay here that long. Sigh. On the cancelation list. So I guess Iâll make a back up apt home for Dec 30/31 if they even have one. Havenât called yet. Need to find that phone number next.
@bleedmichigan drank your eggnog.
/UNBLAME
I have mentioned my love of the music of Kings College Cambridge Choir elsewhere.
For anyone interested in listening to glorious classical U.K. chorister versions of Christmas carols tomorrow:
(Whether you are âdoing Christmasâ, or you just like the music)
The live Kings College Festival of Nine Lessons and Carols broadcast starts at 3pm Brit time.
Thatâs:
7am PT
8am MT
9am CT
10am ET
It can be heard live on any American Public Radio affiliated station (which includes many, but not all, NPR stations).
In specific, WNYC and Minnesota Public Radio will carry it. I hope these are accessible as web or app streams.
Or on BBC Radio 3, if your setup will let you access it.
More info here:
https://www.kings.cam.ac.uk/chapel/a-festival-of-nine-lessons-and-carols
Booklet - order of service here:
https://64qvsuvxf9nwqh8hwopln5h9dzdc.s3.us-east-2.amazonaws.com/9L&C+order+of+service+2019+optimised.pdf
The similar âCarols From Kingsâ video recorded service (fewer readings, more Carols) from the same choir and chapel, will prob be broadcast by BBC America sometime in the 25th. Possibly with some re-broadcasts.
This service was a few days ago; is already recorded and available for download here:
https://www.kings.cam.ac.uk/choir/listen-to-the-choir/recordings/carols-kings-2019-video-download
This service should also be up on YouTube soon, if it isnât up already.
A sample
O Come All Ye Faithful
O Holy Night
@f00l
The Kings College Cambridge Chapel Choir Xmas Eve service is live now and the singing is wonderful. Itâs almost over, sadly.
Some familiar Carols use a different common orchestration in the U.K. it seems. Thatâs fine. Itâs all wonderful.
This program streams on the main Minnesota Public Radio Classical Music channel.
The webpage for streaming is here:
https://www.classicalmpr.org/story/2019/11/25/festival-of-nine-lessons-and-carols
The service can also be streamed from the MPR app by choosing the classical channel.
Todayâs 2019 program will have a repeat broadcast this afternoon on MPR classical.
5pm PT
6pm MT
7pm CT
8pm ET
Last yearâs 2018 Kings College Chapel service marked the 100th anniversary of this traditional English Christmas Eve service, first performed at Truro Cathedral in Cornwall in 1918.
(This service was first performed at King College in 1928.)
Last yearâs service was also the final service arranged and conducted by long time Kings College Choir and Music Director Sir Stephen Cleobury, who died earlier this year.
That service performance from a year ago can be downloaded or streamed from this page:
https://smarturl.it/TheCentenaryService
Another webpage streaming todayâs service - possibly at a time of the listenerâs choosing, not sure - is here
https://www.yourclassical.org/listen/holiday
@f00l What do I tell Alexa to get Samuel Jackson to play this?
@therealjrn
Alexa will play this MPR channel, perhaps.
I think you have to choose between this and Samuel Jackson. Perhaps you could alternate.
Or do a custom edit?
(While dressed up for appliance bargaining, of course.)
/youtube Samuel Jackson
/giphy cleavage
@therealjrn
PS
While I was mostly absent from Meh for a few daze, did you keep up with offering my apologies for every possible reason and for no reason at all?
Or must I apologize on your behalf for your failure to apologize on my behalf?
/youtube Samuel L Jackson fucking apology
@therealjrn
PPS
That last previous YouTube video fucking sux.
I apologize!
Letâs try this one.
/youtube Samuel L Jackson fuck
While you were gone, you decided that all this âover-apologizingâ was actually a manifestation of pridefulness so you quit doing it.
Good on you, @f00l, good on you.
Stay humble, @f00l, even though youâre perfect in every way, just like me.
I understand your struggle.
@therealjrn
I apologize for my pridefully humble apologies.
They mostly suck. Or they all suck.
I feel so bad about them.
/giphy random Samuel L Jackson
@therealjrn
Oh. I forgot.
I apologize for being perfect in every way, just like you.
How reprehensible of me.
/giphy specific Samuel L Jackson
@f00l Iâm not mad, Iâm just disappointed.
@f00l @therealjrn
/image Mary Poppins perfect in every way
@f00l @therealjrn disappointment is the WORST
@f00l
@therealjrn
I apologize that you are perfectly disappointed.
/giphy perfect
@f00l Naw, no Iâm just tired of it. No problem. All good here.
@therealjrn
Sometimes Iâm feeling extra-apologetic and I act that out. Usually when under stress.
Because Iâm aware that I tend apologize too much during stressful times, and donât control it well;
I try to also use that âapology-tendencyâ for a bit of (v v lame) light comedy.
Either by making fun of my own tendency to over-apologize; or by or by going over-the-top ridiculous or absurd with apologies.
Uh âŠ
as you may be noticed, this attempt at âlight comedyâ often doesnât work. Ouch.
I have not yet quit my day job to do full-time standup. Thatâs prob a good thing, no?
: )
@f00l All good, you be you.
Itâs Christmas Eve. I have stuff to get at Costco. Itâs just over an hour before closing, and I was figuring that itâd take that long to check out.
NOPE!
In and out in 15 minutes! Have a pile of unblames, goat!
/roll 4d20
You rolled a total of 71
@narfcake it is a Christmas miracle!!
Merry Christmas
/giphy Merry Christmas
Unblame: Hawks won big in their bowl game, 49-24 over USC.
Blame: I had to work so I didnât get to watch it.
@msklzannie great game! I caught the last 3/4.
@msklzannie even better is the the Ohio State lost
/giphy Buckeyes lost
@bleedmichigan If it was a regular season game, Iâd agree⊠but you at least have to cheer for the Big 10 in the bowl games (even if it pains you to do so).
@msklzannie sorry but it is sac religious to root for Ohio State not during the regular season not in the bowls.
@bleedmichigan Think of it not as cheering for the team but for the conference. âGo Big 10!â not âGo Ohio State!â
@msklzannie any other team and that would be fine but not that school down south.
@bleedmichigan @msklzannie you do know it is properly called The Ohio State. I hired an engineer from there and she corrected me a hundred times!
@JnKL @msklzannie the history behind the âtheâ in the name is interesting but I still donât care itâs that damn school down south. Has been, and will continue to be.
@bleedmichigan @JnKL Legally the University of Iowa is the State University of Iowa.
Went to lay down to take a nap. Turn my ceiling fan on. Get comfortable in bed. Hear a pop noise. Think that maybe something fell. Notice that my fan is slowing down. Check the light, it works. Fan wonât spin anymore.
Ugh.
I guess I should be happy I have a spare fan in my garage.
Still blame because now I am forced to change it because sleeping in Florida without a ceiling fan sucks.
@RiotDemon chances are itâs your fan switch. They are like 8 bucs at Home Depot and easy to change
@RiotDemon Is it a remote controlled fan? Itâs possible that itâs the receiver/controller that died, which is typically separate from the fan itself.
A new receiver and remote will be the fix; something like this:
https://smile.amazon.com/F2-U-Universal-Controller-Westinghouse-Honeywell/dp/B076B9SWRY/
@narfcake @bleedmichigan
Not remote controlled. Doubt itâs the switch because it was already running when it quit. Maybe the capacitor? Either way, the fan is at least 9 years old and it was starting to make annoying noises. Itâs also ugly. I was planning on eventually changing it out. Now Iâm just forced to do it sooner. Sleeping last night was terrible. I could postpone it by using a portable fan but why delay the inevitable any longer?
Turns out I have two spare fans and I just couldnât decide which one I wanted for my bedroom versus my guest room.
@bleedmichigan @narfcake @RiotDemon Probably easier to change out the fan than buy another house. Good plan RD!
Blame - it rained, sometimes really hard, the entire first day of driving home. I hate driving in the pouring rain in the pitch black. Hopefully tomorrowâs drive will be better (although it is longer).
@Kidsandliz
@Kidsandliz Finished my 600mi drive today. Rained mist of the middle, starting from drizzle, and dry at the end. Overcast and cloudy the whole way, dawn to dark.
@mike808 Glad it went well. My 604 mile leg is today. Looking at the weather it is supposed to snow where I left from yesterday so at least I missed that. Iâll take your weather over what I had even if mist and wind shield wipers is a pain. Actually just looking at a national weather map, it looks pretty good even though it is much colder than yesterday (and my winter coat is in the car somewhere, not inside with me. Oops).
@Kidsandliz wouldnât it be easier to move closer?
@RiotDemon Well yes it would but I need a job up there first (and have been applying) in order to know I can pay for a move Iâd have to put on a credit card. The down side of that is then it is harder to manage my special needs young adult daughter and what is going on with her and her 4 kids (of which 3out of 4 of them also have special needs/medical issues). Trade offs unfortunately and makes for hard choices. I could use a clone
@Kidsandliz no way for her to move as well?
@RiotDemon I only wish. It would be far better for her to be out of the deep south too, not to mention not living in one of the three worst states for medical care where it is a race to the bottom (and no medicaid expansion). But she refuses to leave.
Blame: because family/people suck! That is allâŠ
@tinamarie1974 Sorry for having to deal with folks in that category over what should be a happy time.
@Kidsandliz aawww thanks. Every family has one I just have to remind myself to not go to her level
@tinamarie1974 solidly agree especially the overly religious ones who keep telling you what you are doing wrong and how your kids deserve better. Thanks mom.
UNBLAME - 49ers win final game vs Seahawks and get 1st seed in the NFC and a bye in the first round! Disappointment delayed for at least two weeks, by which time I will be fully ready to accept the blame.
@stolicat Ah, the last stage of acceptance.
What is this white icy stuff that froze my wipers to my windshield and dusting the roofs around here? We donât see that in the deep south. BLAME I forgot my ice scraper. Now I have cold hands from using them to melt the ice enough to free the wipers.
UNBLAME I left the right day otherwise Iâd be dealing with snow over heavily rained on roads (aka now ice) on the first leg home.
@Kidsandliz drive safely
@bleedmichigan Just got back at 12:25am. Did not tie the cats to the roof rack despite their incessant meowing. They are thrilled to be home. So am I. I am really, really tired.
Now on to goat business:
More fender liner (this time on the other side) was banging around from, I presume, hitting the rabbit the other week. Good thing I had lock ties in the car. No fun lying on the cold pavement on the side of the interstate fastening them back up. But once they were back up the nasty wheel sound vanished. Blame and unblame for that. Blame for the low fuel/fuel door open sensor stuck turned on the entire trip home. Presuming it isnât going to hurt anything it will remain unfixed. Sigh.
Good night.
@bleedmichigan drank your eggnog.
/blame
/giphy winter
I kinda prefer running the car heater to having cold feet.
BLAME!!
Daughter came down sick the 23rd. Wife came down sick the 24th. Boy got over his pneumonia about that time. Daughter and wife are still sick. Second trip to the dr comes this morning. All family get togethers missed, at least Santa made it to the house Christmas Day.
Three day trip to Great Wolf Lodge canceled due to sickos. Hunting trip canceled due to caring for sickos. House stinks like Lysol. Everyone has cabin fever and is snappy/cranky.
I predict this will be a milestone Christmas, âremember the Christmas we all got sick, back in â19â
Bah humbug!
@JnKL aaawww I am sorry That sounds like a terrible holiday. Lets hope you ring in a much healthier and prosperous 2020
@JnKL Hope you manage to continue to escape the plague that is in your house. Sorry you missed all those fun things!! That sucks.
Well no January blame thread yet and @bleedmichigan still has an undead goat icon so BLAME - there is no room on my bed for me due to CATS!!
@Kidsandliz cute cats but we really need to talk about people getting rid of comforters with flowers on them.
@bleedmichigan Hey I found it behind City Thrift in their dumpster. It was in nice shape, clean (although I washed it first anyway) and has an IKEA label. Canât argue with free. Besides it keeps my nice quilt from being wrecked by cat claws when the young ones are play fighting and by the almost 19 year old who tends to puke a lot. These are the younger 3 - feral cat (2 in May), backyard bird feeder dinner bait kitty (about 14 months), and campus kitty (around 3 this month). A no kill shelter here is trying to find the youngest 2 homes. I also have freeway kitty (10 yo this month) and bottle fed baby who will be 19 in March (I have had her since 10 days old).
@Kidsandliz ikea is not the arbiter of fashionable quilts I guess. Though I do understand your plight as my wife does something similar to protect our quilt
@bleedmichigan Ikea is the arbitrator of 140 thread count quilts and sheets for sure though. Actually this one is fairly soft but you can tell it is low quality. I actually like some Ikea stuff. For years I have had these wood shelves that you can put together in all sorts of configurations, a poem chair which has lasted forever (Ikea no longer sells this and so eventually I will have to custom make a new cushion as this one is pretty much destroyed and has replaced it by the poang chair which is also nice for a light, small chair although it is narrower and you lean back a bit more than Iâd like) and some incredibly cheap, technically, fat candle holders that I use to put silverware in since my kitchen only has 2 very small drawers (blame for that since you are still goat!!). I like those things. Their chocolate bars are mediocre though.
@Kidsandliz expired IKEA Chocolate will be for sale on Meh within a year now. Thanks for giving them ideas.
@bleedmichigan @Kidsandliz cats on the bed also magically increase their mass at least 3x, making it nearly impossible to get out of bed, or even roll over, if you are pinned on both sides.
And weâve got a flower print comforter not unlike that one that is used for an extra layer or as a throw cover - looks nice in the old house.
@Kidsandliz @stolicat oddly enough our one cat sleeps on the wife pretty funny for me not so much for her. Last night it actually tried to lay on her head.
@bleedmichigan @stolicat I had a very large ragdoll/snowshoe lynx siamese markings cat - stretched out he was around 40 inches nose to tip of his tail and normal weight at 19 pounds. Neighbor left him behind (and two others). He liked to sleep on your chest (which I did not like as he was heavy!!). The no kill shelter found him (and his buddies) a home. Wonderful sweetheart of a cat and I would have kept him and one of the other two who was a darling, and small, love bug, but I already had enough cats. I have always regretted I didnât keep them though.
@Kidsandliz @stolicat still a goat at 3:45 est
@stolicat And it is lucky they are not 120 pound dogs although they can act as if they are
@bleedmichigan you still donât have a dead goat icon.
BLAME!!! Fucking doctorâs office ordered a test, didnât bother to tell me about it, stuff came in the mail. I had no clue what was up since it wasnât even a test that seemed logical for that specialty (or any I had seen recently) to order. Called the place the stuff came from and was told the ordering doctorâs name, which wasnât my doctor. Presumed it was ordered for me in error as EPIC (medical record program) is screwy that way. Tracked down that ordering doctorâs name here to tell his staff I am not his patient; you need to figure out who this was supposed to be ordered for. Found out he reads the test which is why his name is on it and found out my doctor ordered it.
Mycharted my doctor to find out what was up and why this was ordered, was it a mistake since last I knew I didnât have any problems like that and that specialty told me, 6 mo ago, to come back in 3 years. He ignores mychart. (this was 12/31 in the morning). I get a snail mail letter today 1/2 that was dated 12/31 where he explained why he was ordering it (which made sense). He had had his staff, on 12/31 cancel the test in response to my what is going on/is this really something for me or was this supposed to go to someone else⊠question - umm that is not a logical response. Instead of answering my question yes we want you to do that you just cancel the test? WHAT THE FUCK?
So I have now spent over 3 hours today (and nearly 4 hours 12/31 trying to find out what the heck is going on) trying to get someone reinstate the fucking order. Not to mention that the place that sent me this crap sent an incomplete box (eg no charger and no consumables) and wonât send me what is missing from the box - but will charge me for what is missing from the box that isnât consumables when I return it, until someone reinstates the order.
FUCKING ASSHOLES!! This doctor also doesnât bother to tell you test results either. The university policy is 5 days after they are done you need to have someone call the patient; that rule came from the stink I made when it took them 5 months - yes that is correct - to tell me I had a blood cancer. And that was after I already knew from picking up the results from medical records as I couldnât stand the delay. And so after 3 weeks of me calling them to see when they were going to get around to telling me with my prompting, I contacted the clinic director and told her what was up. I had to do that two more times (over a total of 3 months) before she acted.
Turned out 198 patients had positive test results who were not contacted. They didnât fire the person who was supposed to call us. HUH?. Took that person 2 more months to finally call me. By then I had already had a second opinion, biopsy, chemo started⊠Good thing I can, so far, figure it out from what has been auto released what the deal is with this current specialty doc and know if I need to contact the doctor about the results. He is the only one with this sub-specialty so I canât switch doctors to someone who actually believes in communicating with the patient.
And this is one of the many reasons why LA, AR and MS are in a race to the bottom with medical care. Fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck. And more fuck. That is all. Done with rant.
@Kidsandliz yup still not dead. So what university hospital is this crappy?
@bleedmichigan @Kidsandliz you died!!! Yippie!!!
@bleedmichigan @Kidsandliz @tinamarie1974 the goat has turned and I have my badge - now I just need to watch out for collapsing roofs.
@Kidsandliz @stolicat @tinamarie1974 it seems like you should have to cover February now since itâs your fault that I took part of January away
@bleedmichigan @Kidsandliz @tinamarie1974 No way - @Kuoh is already getting a short month with gobs of Holiday content âŠ
@stolicat OK so the blame still holds that I mentioned above only now it is your fault. Not to mention the work day has ended now and this STILL isnât sorted out.!! So that blame is on your watch now!
@bleedmichigan @stolicat @tinamarie1974 And why would you need to watch out for collapsing roofs?
@bleedmichigan @Kidsandliz @tinamarie1974 earlier discussion today somewhere here about the goat curse and the roof collapsing on @Pavlov during his goatness - something I guess I am now required to take the blame for âŠ
@bleedmichigan @Pavlov @stolicat @tinamarie1974 Oh THAT collapsing roof⊠I must have missed that discussion earlier today. Lots of time on the phone and on hold so was online wasting time while waiting⊠but I guess I missed that conversation.
@Kidsandliz and I should take the blame for your current hassles with the health care octopus - in light of all the current discussion (arguments) of health care systems, especially the monolithic ones, I should be advocating for the creation of a functional health care ombudsman structure, possibly by some NGO partner but with some teeth and influence to help people navigate the inevitable bureaucratic bullshit.
Itâs lucky (although really unfortunate) that youâve had as much experience with the structure so you at least know where to start when something goes south - as I not-so-gracefully age I worry more and more about others without the resources to deal with fuck-ups. Itâs bad enough that it can impact your health, but also suck up so much of your time and money.
@stolicat Something sure needs to be done. I am really tired to continued fuck ups on the part of the system, insurance⊠I canât even begin to tell you how many people I have advised how to fight back with screw ups with two different medical systems. I eventually got MD Anderson to write off nearly $5000 due to their repeated insurance screw up although that took 7 years for that to permanently stick (theyâd write it off and then it would get unwritten off). I told them Iâd like to return my first breast cancer surgeries like a couch and get it done elsewhere since they, for 7 mo, repeatedly accepted my insurance as in network (and my insurance company said they were in network) and people make decisions on where to get health care based on who accepts their insurance. I finally, when I demanded proof that it really was written off (so I didnât have to do a rinse and repeat), had it sent to me by the head of billing. I emailed back a thank you and told her sheâd be sorry she had my email address. LOL.
And I had to use it each year as they put the wrong dx code (no doubt repeating from the previous year) on one radiologistâs reading of the CT scan. Said it wasnât medically necessary. Really? But it is for the rest of them. Sigh. But I was the one, 5 calls to health insurance later, who had to figure out what the screw up was and then get an insurance company person to violate their own policy and give me the diagnosis code that worked on the rest of the CT scans. Then MDA seemed surprised I was telling the truth when they discovered I had called my insurance, I was right, they were wrong⊠blah blah blah. Now all I do is email her and tell her rinse and repeat and it gets fixed.
And then there was the year it (finally after I had spent over 180 hours on the mess) took the stateâs insurance commission to straighten out the mess. Cost me my $5000 award from LLS for medical bills though as I missed that deadline since I couldnât submit the bills for the chemo copays until I had insurance straightened out. That attorney told me she never wanted to deal with Cigna again. Nope neither did I.
There is one problem that I have been fighting for 2.5 years, the MD violated university policy big time which is costing me nearly $600. He has already been sent to (useless for changing his behavior) anger management classes with how he treats patients and staff (he is tenured), and I refuse to pay the amount it cost me extra to have that test done there rather than elsewhere. Only 6 mo until statute of limitations to collect runs out (I am in collection) but I donât want it on my credit report so I continue to battle them.
They also donât turn off emails of patient advocates who leave and make sure that open cases are passed on. Been through 3 so far that way and have to show up in person to get someone reassigned to the case. The forth told me she asked him if he did that, he said no, thus no problem. Seriously? Like he would admit to violating university policy and then threaten me if I didnât get the test done there? The nurse told me he meant his threats; he had followed through with others. That woman didnât even talk to her despite me giving her her name and she agreed to back me up. Sigh.
I eventually âwinâ most of my battles/solve most of the âproblemsâ because I donât give up or go away, and hunt down policy and quote it back at them (although I all of this has cost me $7500 so far in lost LLS funds over the years since it takes time, plenty of time, to solve these problems). I am sure they hate me. And I sure get sick of this. I donât even want to think about what would happen if my mom had to solve these kinds of problems on her own. Frankly it is a good thing you canât throttle someone via the phone lines. I have been so tempted at times. My tone of voice and words may be reasonable but oh the things I say in my head; the expressions on my face, the middle finger aimed at the phoneâŠ
Although I have found that doing things in person makes it harder for them to blow you off (even if I have to work harder not to show my irritation). One thing that often works when you show up in person and they tell you to go away, is to say you have plenty of time; you will wait. So I sit there and stare at the person. Pleasant expression on my face, but every time they look up I am staring at them. They finally canât stand it, there is no behavior on my part that can justify throwing me out, and so they finally convince whomever I need to deal with the problem to come help me. That actually worked with immigration too when I needed to talk with the person who dealt with the form my internationally adopted kid needed and the gate keeper up front told me no way. She wanted security to throw me out because I was staring at her. Security told her he canât do that for staring since I wasnât being disruptive; why doesnât she just help me and then get rid of me that way LOL.
Donât even get me started on food stamps. At least there the state fired all the administration in the county and the woman who oversees cleaning up messes in the state is helping me. That was pure luck. Problem still isnât solved - she has kicked it up the chain - but at least I am not having to fight this particular battle on my own. She told me I am the only recipient she has known in 25 years of doing this who ever read the entire SNAP manual (around 800 pages) and understood exactly what was being done wrong in my case and how it should be done. She also told me that what has been done to me is the worst case of screw ups and then revenge for trying to get things handled correctly that she has ever seen. Of course the people who did this to me were fired for cause and what was done to me is only a tiny drop in the over all pile of issues they got fired for.
If only someone would die and made me king⊠the things I would fix with these kinds of messes⊠Sounds like you too.