I need help...

mikibell went on a bit of a rant said
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Dear Mehtizens,

Let me start by saying – I only need help with verbiage – I am not asking for $$ or anything else…

Long story:

My husband has to have a kidney removed. He will be out of work for 2+ months and is self-(under)insured. My crazy in-laws want to have a dinner fundraiser to help close the gap between my insurance (which is great) and the loss of income. At first, we refused the help, but then my husband, after much consideration, that it was a good idea. It is full steam ahead. I am not on-board only because I think there are people out there who need the money more than we do. I am extremely grateful for the in-laws caring and initiative.

My quandary – we have not used the word cancer, because my kids associate that with the demise of a person – my husband is barely stage 0, we are VERY, VERY lucky! We won’t even know that it is cancer until they remove the kidney and test the tumor.

@mfladd @joelmw, anyone?? I have to design the tickets/flyers for this event. What words can I use that convey the seriousness of this, but not use the word cancer??

tl;dr need verbiage that says cancer without using the word cancer.