Big Day Today

RiotDemon went on a bit of a rant said
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I’m feeling like an adult.

About 5 years ago, shortly before I turned 30, I decided to leave my husband. I’ve spoken about it before, but, basically the main reason was that he cheated on me and refused to get help. He was also a bit of a deadbeat and held me back. I had lost all my motivation and had no idea where I was going in life. It was hard to take that leap, but in the end, I was so much happier. I was no longer broke all the time even though I was the only one supplying any kind of income.

Now, I’m 35. I still don’t have everything together but I’m making progress. I made the leap and finally purchased my first house. I just closed today. It’s actually been in the works for months. I didn’t want to jinx anything by talking about it. There’s been a lot of bumps along the road buying this house. First, the septic had to be fixed. Then in the middle of finalizing everything, the roof needed repairs. This pushed everything a few months back. Once I thought everything was great, I just kept having one stupid issue after another come up. Dealing with a person that didn’t do their job which caused delays and aggravation. The last three weeks have been an absolute nightmare for me. Been completely miserable.

It finally happened though. I’m pleased as punch. I quietly celebrated with a piece of apple pie and some whipped cream. I also watched about 4 hours worth of gardening videos trying to get ideas.

The house was built in the 70s and has the original kitchen. I’ve been daydreaming about redoing the kitchen for weeks.

It’s a smaller house, but it suits me fine. It appraised for more than I bought it for, so that is great news to me.

I still don’t feel like a grown up, but I do feel like an adult.