@hchavers@shahnm Is it weakness to permit yourself a meaningless pleasure? When the choice means nothing, there is no harm in choosing whatever path you wish.
Any urge to deny yourself in such a case is in itself an admission of weakness, in that you feel you must somehow prove to yourself that you are strong; there is no other reason to do so.
My favorite way to make a choice is based on a “Friends” episode where Phoebe said think of how you will feel if you don’t pick each thing and the one that make you most regretful is the one you want.
I don’t regret not having either soft or hard side suitcases, I’m totally indifferent (I have all soft now but have had hard side and it’s all just luggage) so I’m totally stuck.