Has someone done something nice for you lately?
11So, after working lots of extra hours, braving the cold in the NE, moving a ton's worth of bags of pellets, feeding kids, checking homework, etc., I climbed into bed last night and found that my husband warmed my blanket in the dryer and stuck it under the bedspread. Life can be so sweet!
Tl;dr NE = Cold! Hubby = Warm.
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The guy (Nathan) who is our new Level 1 IT guy bought my partner and I new RC Planes! He did it as a way of thanking us for training him and teaching him the ropes. This was really nice of him. I think we'll keep him! :-)
@lcastil1 ut oh, are the Plane fights in your future, like the RC Helicopters??
I almost always seem to be the doer. Rarely the receiver.
Oh well... At least I get the pleasure of the happiness of those around me.
@curtise Same for me. Sometimes I get a little frustrated though when one of them complains that no one does anything for them. But when that happens, just means next gift (if at all) is coming from the dollar store.
@Keyeno @curtise I am typically the doer, that is why it is sooo nice when someone does something sweet for me -- even as trivial as a warm blanket. I am lucky to have a great husband and awesome kids (if you like kids!)..
@mikibell I only like awesome ones.
I also try to do the random acts of kindness thing. But I am also often the recipient. I am retiring tomorrow (yay!) and yesterday when I was at lunch my teammates decorated my office with streamers and Happy Retirement cards. Last week my boss took me to lunch, my lunch group took me to lunch, and today one of my team is taking me to lunch. Tomorrow is my big sendoff, it looks like we are going to fill the 60 person room reserved at the fancy Italian restaurant with co-workers and staff from the social service agencies I work with. In the afternoon there will be a party with cake and a whole lot of well-wishers will turn up. People have been streaming by all week to congratulate me and tell me how much I will be missed. I am determined not to get all weepy and sentimental and the odds of succeeding are close to zero. Jeez, just talking about it is making me cloud up.
@moondrake Congratulations. Isn't it wonderful to feel so well liked??? It makes every good thing you thought went unappreciated feel worth it, right?? Very jealous over here -- I am too long away from retirement!!
@moondrake Happy retirement!
@moondrake Congratulations on surviving the rat race!
@thismyusername @dashcloud Thanks! Looks like my party may end up geting canceled, it's pouring down snow and 7am was our high for the day. We aren't built for freezing temps (desert southwest) so the city usually shuts down when there's been any kind of precipitation and the temps get ready to drop below freezing. Our roads are specialy constructed for high temps and relentless sun and ice up dangerously when it's cold. That's supposed to happen right about the time my party is supposed to start, so they may send everyone home before we get cake. So sad, I was expecting a big turnout from all over the city but now even if it happens I am sure many people will choose the wiser course and stay home. Of all days, this is the day we are doing our street count for chronic homeless, so my coworker is out in this, looking under freeway underpasses and out in the desert at homeless camps doing a head count census right now.
@moondrake Congratulations on making it! Enjoy the much deserved R&R.
@moondrake Congratulations! retirement is a phase of life I highly recommend-
@moondrake Congratulations!
@moondrake Congratulations on surviving long enough to retire. I know you have a to-do life list, and I recommend you get right on it. Take a few weeks to sleep in. From now on, Monday is the best day of the week!
@moondrake Did they cancel?? Or was it a blowout??
Someone sent me 10 Build NY cases without me asking for them. That was.... nice?
@BillLehecka Congratudolences
@BillLehecka See.. you just didn't play your cards right on that. When @jont was giving out 10 Build cases, you could have just stayed under the radar :) Except for @unixrab, I don't think anyone was "gifted" with the cases unless they said something.
@BillLehecka LOL, I really wanted some of those. I am going to be starting some communityart classes next month and they'd have come in handy for toting stuff around. Hopefully mah will find a few more boxes of the things to sell.
@moondrake Anything in particular?? I have 90 coming to me.. :) Of course, they haven't shipped and smart post takes FOREVER to get to our area -- not a complaint, just a statement of fact :)
@mikibell Thank you for the quotation marks... "gifted" indeed.
@unixrab This is quite creepy. If you watch the loop a few times, the people behind him add an eerie shadow..
@mikibell it's the creepy evil of @JonT
@mikibell Nope, just miscellaneous ones. Paintbrushes, paints, sculpting tools, jewelry tools. If you want to get rid of some of them drop me a line.
@moondrake Will do when they arrive. Enjoy retirement!!!
@moondrake Good news- @jseay65 is looking to get rid of a box of 30: https://meh.com/forum/topics/dear-meh-1
@moondrake I suspect that the word "built" will no longer be allowed at meh HQ... and I suspect that polka-dots will cause them to cower in fear whenever they are seen.
@unixrab I left that creepy video of @jont up on my screen and my children agreed.. very chilling.
@mikibell I think he's the devil
@unixrab jont devil .. credits to jon mcnair..
@mikibell looks right
@moondrake 4 16 Inch laptop cases -- Poppy 2 Tablet Envelopes -- Polka Dots 1 Tablet Envelopes -- Purple dots 3 Kindle fire Stretch cover -- black 2 Kindle fire Stretch cover -- Purple dots 11 latest Generation Kindle sleeves -- black 18 slim sleeves -- poppy 5 twist top sleeves macbook air -- black 8 latest Generation Kindle sleeves --dots 11 slim sleeves -- dots 9 Ipad 2 covers -- poppy 18 Tablet Envelopes -- Black I probably won't need more than one of each, to swap, email me at mikibell @ the first 3 words of the scout oath .com, just cover cheapest shipping costs.
@mikibell Did you get the email I sent? It didn't get kicked back but | haven't heard from you so maybe I didn't figure out your email address correctly.
@moondrake Oh thank you for reaching out.. I was looking for your response, but I did not get one. I found it in the default email and cannot see why I didn't receive it. Replying now!!
Mikey. And I think it's downstairs.
@smoo99 Merry January! My wife thanks you for getting that giant box out of our house too.
Meh sent me a free Fukubukuro no reason.
Just kidding that was a dream :(
@bruinscbr I've had that dream.
@joelmw I think many of us has had that dream.
@bruinscbr My dream is they come and pick up that giant bubblegum machine.
My wife does sweet things for me all of the time. Like the other night she made me salad for my lunches even though I never asked her to and I know she was tired. But it's the small things that mean a lot to me. Like, she smiles at me for no good reason, pretty much all of the time. She's always sympathetic. She puts up with my occasional (and sometimes frequent crankiness) and mostly manages to laugh at it and even get me to laugh.
She's always encouraging me to feel entitled--in just about every conceivable context. Long story, but the short version is: a lifetime of religion-induced guilt.
I know that I lose my man card for this, but she is the most amazing cuddler. I don't know quite how to explain it, but that she just feels good--and it's not even necessarily sexual (well, okay, it is, but it doesn't have to be). And she seems to enjoy it as much as I do.
Idunno, I think the most amazingly nice thing my wife does for me is staying with me, because it seems like every moment I'm with her is better than the best moment without her.
@joelmw Awesome.
@joelmw I was trying to find something to blame you for in that post but could not... Just be blessed
@joelmw Don't worry about losing your man card for your post, we just cut a corner off until there are no more. THEN you lose the card. :) I get the cuddle thing -- my husband gives THE best hugs. They are filled with this unimaginable strength that makes anything and everything possible to face and to surmount.
My mother is blowing part of her retirement fund to throw my soon to be husband and I a huge wedding reception. We didn't necessarily want one, but she is insisting. My father has been mostly out of the picture since I was five years old, and even though he's technically around, he's not even coming to the wedding. When I announced my engagement two years ago, he told me I had to choose between him coming to the wedding or him giving us a wedding gift, which I refused to do. She bends over backwards to try to be both parents, and she's more fantastic than I have words to express.
@atravis6 Congratulations on your impending nuptials!! Moms are there from the moment you start to exist; treasure every one of those moments. Don't forget to post pictures of the cake, etc.!
Opposite of nice, a guy sold a car on me that I had put a deposit on. So sad.
On the nice side, my wife is good to me and loves me unconditionally. My daughter tells me she loves me and it feels great to know I've cultivated such a great kid :) and my youngest daughter smiles and can make a bad day turn happy.
Life is good.
@Stallion Perhaps there was something terribly wrong with the car?? For every moment I want to scream because my kids drive me insane, there are twice as many moments that they make me smile. I am very proud of the ethics and morals my children display!
@mikibell I appreciate the response and logical thinking, but the truth is that his car was a once in a lifetime type find. I was supposed to buy for $12K, and the new owner who beat me out of buying it has it on eBay and I'm thinking its going to sell in the $20K range. Talk about torture, just watching the bids climb and climb. I'm in a sad misery for the next 3 or 4 days until the auction ends. As for the kids, I can't agree with you more! Sometimes they drive me absolutely mad, but if you step back for a minute you realize everything they do is simply awesome and it is a gift to enjoy them. Life is all about "wants" and "needs". I have everything I need in life, its the "wants" that sometimes get your mind spinning, but if you just think back to your "needs" and realize you have them all, life simply doesn't get any better.
@Stallion I had that happen too. Lost $1000 I could ill afford to lose. As I moved 2500 miles shortly there after small claims court was sort of pointless. If it is recent enough 2-5 years likely for most states (oral contract rules likely) you could go that route to try to get it back.
During bath time every night my daughter makes me smoothies with the tub water. Last nights was purple watermelon chocolate chip with peanut butter and maple syrup AND she never makes me pay for any of them.
@jimmyd103 but do you drink them?
@jimmyd103 she needs to tweak her flavor combinations, but just barely -- get that purple watermelon out of there and she might be on to something...
@Ignorant Did she tell you to ask me that?
@JonT What can I say? She's brilliant!
I love purple.
@jimmyd103 Sweet!! I have an unlimited supply of imaginary tea stored in the hall closet. My kids never thought of smoothies.. hmmmm
A past student just dropped by the other day and brought me a bag of tamales his mother had made. So sweet! And yesterday I worked late and my neighbor brought huge box of Built sleeves into his place (they were sitting on the sidewalk in front of the building) and kept them for me until I got home.
Not too long ago, a stranger secretly paid for dinner for me, my wife, and our 2 kids at Longhorn and threw in dessert too. Our bill had to be at least $70.
@mikey A guy did something similar at one of our favorite pizza joints. Its incredible what strangers will do, always thinking of how I can pay it forward!
Someone hit my car in December while it was parked on a city street. They could have driven away and left it there and I would have been out either the repair money or higher insurance premiums. Instead, she left a note. Basically the best thing anyone has ever done for me. The woman at the insurance company said in her experience, when there's no witnesses / security footage or anything, people leave a note maybe 1 time out of 200. That's up there with the nicest thing anyone has ever done for me.
@Collin1000 Yeah my ghetto van was backed into last year - no note. Didn't fix it since it was just body damage.
Today my Mom was scraping the snow off her driveway. She is many years retired but in good shape for her age. A stranger stopped, a lady, and asked her if she could do it for her. My Mom declined as she felt she could finish and likes getting the exercise but was very appreciative that a stranger, not even a neighbor, was nice enough to stop and see if they could help. I am very appreciative too, thank you stranger for caring about my Mom when I couldn't be there to help her.
@tinkertime My mom is 63, and mildly ridiculous about having a very meticulously clean driveway. Even though we bought her one of the electric snow throwers from Woot two years ago, she prefers to manually shovel. She can't handle a gas snow blower, it's too heavy for her, but the snow thrower is too light, and she always ends up throwing the snow on herself, heh. Anyway, one of her newer neighbors makes it a game to beat her outside and shovels her driveway, which is a steep hill, and sidewalk. He gets upset when she beats him to it. "Darn it, Emily! I was putting on my boots to come out, and by that time you'd already finished!"
@atravis6 Nice neighbor!
@atravis6 That's cool, it's nice her neighbor cares. My Mom's neighbor will do her driveway if he is home but he works a lot. My Mom has several years on yours and she is mildy ridiculous about the way her lawn is mowed and still does it herself and wants no help.
Yes! Rush is going on tour!
@Headly I like Rush. I used to love Rush, but that was a somewhat different me--a me that's still there, but somewhat drowned out by the other mes. Good stuff in any case. They'll be in Dallas in May. I'm not sure if I know anyone local who would go with me. Though actually, again, not sure if I'm that committed myself. Sorry for the meh-ness of my support.
@joelmw I like Rush a lot. I've been a hardcore fan for 34 years. I'm this kind of fan: Tjg_UaFPA">http://youtu.be/Tjg_UaFPA I don't know anyone else that likes them as much as I do, and I actually prefer to go alone. I will tolerate no meh in my vicinity when I'm at a Rush concert. No you don't need a beer, no you don't need to pee. You need to stand there and revel in the glory or fuck off.
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@Headly The parser is broke.
@Headly Mad respect for this: "No you don't need a beer, no you don't need to pee. You need to stand there and revel in the glory or fuck off." Everyone should feel that way about something. And of the many things out there to feel that way about, Rush is far from the worst. It's a good one even.
@Headly So I tried the bit after the greater than and it didn't work. Is there something missing from the URL I see?
@Headly Well, anyway, I want you to know that I'm now listening to 2112 (that album is part of how I survived high school) on Spotify. I blame you. :-)
@joelmw Tjg_UaFPA Is the video ID I see what it's doing. it's *underscore*Tjg*double underscore*UaFPA
@Headly Got it. And that explains some of what I've seen with images I've tried to post. Thanks! (All that for a little video clip, but we learned something, so it was worth it.)
@Headly @joelmw This should work if you click here
And let's see..
Yep, you can force the underscores by adding backslashes before them like so: v=\_Tjg\_\_UaFPA
(and of course, I had to backslash the backslashes so that they would show)
@curtise @Headly Yet more with the learning. Awesome. Thanks!
@joelmw Got tickets for the Phoenix show - 4th row center, pretty stoked. Got OK tickets for the vegas show. Will be trying to get OC and LA tickets next week. Maybe Omaha and St Louis too. The last two are a total long shot...
@Headly Nice.
Just before Christmas I was in McD's. Ordered a chicken sandwich and drink and asked them to put $50 on my card. There was a man beside me picking up his order. He said, "I've got that, Merry Christmas," ran his credit card through the reader and left. It would have made my day if he'd bought my lunch, but the $50 was mind boggling. I've probably spent most of it paying for people behind me in the drive thru.
My hubby did something extra nice last weekend- he talked me into going to his workplace for a hands-on demo of their new product that has been top secret for years. I wasn't feeling well and didn't want to go, but he insisted. Turned out it was the Microsoft HoloLens, and I got to try it before the press got to. So basically, he took me to Mars. It was mind-blowing.