Suggestions of what vehicle to buy - used and cheap?

Kidsandliz went on a bit of a rant said
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A week ago Saturday a commercial truck with no rear bumper backed into my car and wedged my car under it. Since he had a trailer hitch that trashed the radiator which then damaged the engine. I was totaled out. Insurance company is undervaluing me significantly which isn’t helping (still fighting them on it and they are coming up slowly). That kid did not have a good day because leaving the scene he backed into the cop car only fortunately it had this big, high wrack thing on the front that took the damage or her cop car would have looked like my car.

I need suggestions what to buy. Prefer a minivan for the space (and so I can sleep in it when I go to Houston for cancer crap), and if my kid goes anywhere with me I need to seat 6 now (failure of birth control on her part as in failure to use it, now 4 kids 5 and under). I had a grand caravan (aka the ghetto van) that died in 2015 at 25, replaced it with a 2005 Honda Element that didn’t really have enough space and while when I bought it had enough seats it doesn’t now.

Wanted to buy a van back then but the credit union wouldn’t give me a loan on anything older than 10 years and I couldn’t afford any that met their requirements. Still stuck with the 10 year or newer rule. I have only bought 2 vehicles since 1990 since one lasted 25 years and the other is the one that got wrecked so not really up on most of the cars/vans out there. With all my attention on my sick and likely dying cat (well and grading papers since the term ends today) I haven’t really spent much time figuring out what to do/buy and know little about most cars out there.

I need two sets of suggestions. One if all I have is about $2500-3000 (then no age limit on vehicle) and one if I have around $8500 (credit union may not lend me money even if I use my retirement for collateral because I make around $500/mo less than the poverty line (yes hunting for more work, preferably full time) and live in hud, even though I have always paid my current car note on time.

Prefer van (SUV is more money for the same space so that is out), reality who knows what, but preferably big enough I can sleep in it since I do that in Houston when I am there for cancer crap and when I drive 2 days home to see my mom) and can seat 6 when needed. And has good reliability record since I would hope it would die well beyond 200,000 miles and 25 years old.

So far what I have found is (if have loan) is: 2010 Toyota Sienna (been in one accident) and 2010 Honda Element (sliding doors don’t work and one won’t open at all), 2011 Honda Element (but been in 4 accidents). Any opinions on them? Need to get them mechanically checked out and the two that have been in a wreck have a body shop look to be sure no lingering issues with that. Not spending $89 to do that though until I know whether or not I will be pre-approve for a car loan.

Found nothing so far if I am not approved for a loan but that is partly because I haven’t really had the time to really look yet and I know anything in that price range is going to have major issues or be really ancient (the ghetto van needed junk yard parts on occasion and a very nice mechanic hand made me a belt guide since that part was available nowhere) and I’d prefer to be one step up from that since I won’t have the money to deal with it.

Thanks.